Can anyone tell me how to win a leo?

One of my best friends is a leo, and I want to date him. My version of date would be best friends who happen to makeout/hookup/etc. I guess I want a title to kind of explain it. I'm a gemini cusp cancer, he's a leo cusp virgo. Not like a date senario or anything, but what will help me win his heart. How can I get into his brain? please help!!!

 

Woo them.

Also listen to Deep Puprle's "Maybe I'm A Leo" from the Machine Head (1972) album.

 

but how? i'm not into the romantic bit anymore because no one seems to care for it. he's the type of person where if he is truly in love you'll know. he would plan his kids names with her. how do you woo someone like that, who isn't necessarily looking for a girlfriend???

 

if hes your friend and you don't know how to win him over (doesn't friendship entail knowing that person?) maybe you shouldn't be persuing him..

 

we're very close. i just have trouble reading him. i don't know how to.

 

Seduction by the stars: an astrological guid to love,lust, and intimate relationships by Ren Lexander and Geraldine Rose

It has everything for every sign. I love this book but rememeber it's only a starting point, don't believe everything u read! GOOD LUCK!

 

http://www.google.com/search?q=seducing+a+leo&start=0&start=0&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-USfficial

That should give you a lot of reading.

Like: http://www.ivillage.co.uk/astrology/love/articles/0,9739,160724_187971,00.html :

IF, and only if, you are into Tarot symbolism, you may want to contemplate the Strength card which shows a woman petting her Lion.

http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/basics/strength.shtml



I am NOT advocating that you get into Tarot. From my cursory reading the technique is simple enough - make him look good, stroke his ego, have confidence in him and all of his decisions; be a faithful friend.

I would start by having him do his hair like a lion's mane - long, flowing. Perhaps a DJ cut, nevr short or crew cut. Then I'd ask that he dress in yellows and royal blues with a touch of red for his fire sign, perhaps red glasses or a red tatoo.

Ask him how he prefers a woman to be dressed. I like a woman with a country dress; a yellow dress with red poka dots will turn me into a raging bull. (They just happen to be my favourite colours, yellow for virgo and red for scorpio). Yellows, reds, blues and tans will really make him stand out in the crowd.

Just watch a crowd of people and look at the colours as they go by. You'll always notice me because I only wear yellow shirts.

So take him shopping and try some different colours on him and see which colour(s) he looks best in. Then experiment and see which colours peque his interest. You may find that when you wear yellow or red his eyes light up. Make yourself more attractive for him. Make your hairdo into a lion's mane. He may like silky skirts or dresses. Watch his reaction to your angora sweater. Does he love stroking the fabric? Watch his hands closely - what does he like to run his hands over? Does he enjoy having beard stubble? Or does he like running his fingers through his beard or hair? If you are walking into a restaurant and his hair is unkempt, run your fingers through his hair to straighten it out - make him look his best. Straighten his tie if it is cocked, lift up his shin, make his eyes shoot out beams of confidence. Make him laugh. Make him smile. Be playfull. How him tightly.

Have you ever watched the Sabdra Dee movie "If a man answers"? Instead of a dog puppy think of a lion cub.

Since you're a Cancer you'll want to communicate through touch. So dress yourself in close which feel sexy to your finger tips. Dress up in one of those white wooly dresses (Fall season is here). Since he's a cat stay away from leather, cow. Teach him the art of touch. Take a full body massage class. Dress with class. Forget the Goth or Punk look and dress for success. Don't wear black unless it is a gown. Forget the brown lipstick - stick to ruby reds, pinks and strawberry colours. If you're a brunette get some highlights put in (again in a lion's mane look).

Best of luck, have fun.

http://www.danitrue.com/zodiac/leo.php
http://www.danitrue.com/zodiac/gemini.php

His colours are yellow and orange. Your colours are yellow and light blue (?). To attract him you may need pastel coral reds and sky light blues.

Find out what perfumes he likes on you. So take him shopping for "his" fragrence. Btw, in case you don't know, the best perfume is one which one cannot detect on themselves. So if you put on a perfume on and can smell it - it isn't for you. The same would go for him. Use the same counter at Macy's...

 

hmmm, well, maybe my mother is the opposite of normal Leo's but she hates having to be the one in control of hte relationship

I suggest being pretty darn aggressive, at least in letting him know that you're interested. No, don't strap him down against his will, but do let him know you're interested, maybe by kissing him oh so gently on the lips sometime, or letting your hands wander a little so you're just touching his inner thigh.

I think that anyone finds it attractive to be pursued, at least to some degree

 

your natal chart can contain information about the (a) the kind of relationship you truly want to experience, and (b) the kind of guy you are attracted to. (a) and (b) are not necessarily the same thing, and usually aren't, hence many a girl's experience of being in a relationship with a bloke she is not really attracted to, or being attracted to a guy who is entirely unsuitable as relationship material. to get an idea of (a), the descendant line will point you to the kind of relationship that you seek to experience. so, for instance, if your ascendant line (the point between the 12th and 1st houses) is in cancer than your descendant line (the point between your 6th and 7th houses) is in capricorn, at the point directly opposite the ascendant. once you know this you will know that you have come to learn about having a relationship with this kind of a capricornian boy: the serious, and practical managerial type, who likes to be around older people and himself in a position of authority in the group. to get an idea of (b) the kind of guy you are physically attracted to you, look to your mar's placement and its sign. if, for instance, you have mars in gemini then you will find fast talking, wise cracking tricksters your cup of tea physically and sexually, or, alternatively, if you have got mars in cancer then you will find a boy with a senstive and nurturing heart your cup of tea. since the course of true love was never smooth you need to also consider what kind of hard aspects (squares, oppositions and conjunctions) affect both the descendant line and mar's placement of your natal chart, as aspects here will complicate and intensify your love life. it also goes without saying that u need to know what your love interest's descendant point and venus placement are (the venus placement denotes in a male heterosexual the kind of woman he finds sexually attractive). are you the kind of girl he unconsciously seeks for a relationship, or are you the kind he is attracted to, both or neither?

 

oh and when you say i want to "win" someone you make it seem like they are a prize so change basic attitude first, perople aren't prizes to be won.

 

Yes, but she later goes on to say that she wishes "to win his heart".

I had the same initial reading, but we have to remember today's society. In my time a woman was not "won," but "gotten". See the sexual innuendo in "To Catch a Thief" staring Cary Grant and Grace Kelly where they talk about a man winning a certain type of woman.

I think she meant "winning over" a Leo.

 

thank you for supporting me, (and of course your help.) sometimes i contemplate the love in these forums...

 

Sigh, I'm having the best time with this female Leo (I'm Aqua) but very confused. Mainly because she's in a relationship (in distance now) and she keeps on having this enthusiastic attitude with me that people easily can hypothesize we're flirting. And I mean from laughing, touching hair, stroking, to show romance, being warm, entertaining (dancing, show off dancing moves etc).

To avoid chattiness, there's an obvious chemistry related to typical zodiac characteristics between us. And things are going perfect, only that I dunno where. And I'm affraid towards an amazing friendship only.

If any Leo female could help me out on this, how do Leo's flirt? I don't wanna end up just her best friend you know. She's 23 and is with her bf for 3 years and as far as I know she doesn't want to get married yet. On the other side I know Leos are very loyal.

I don't intend to give up without trying first, seems like Leos do meant to be with Aquas. Thanks in advance.

 

good point carlfloydfan. It seems to me that relationships are 99.9% destiny anyway. We have to submit to some higher power that is really calling the love shots. It brings us together and it tears us apart. *sigh*

 

Okay....after my whole experience w/ him, I concluded....it ain't worth it. I feel like me being bubbly, does not mix w/ him being wondering, out-there and TOO into himself. I tried not to judge too much, but he was every stereotype Leos are often given. I have tried a virgo, cancer, leo, gemini, an aquarian and now I find my eye and hearet wondering towards a nice libra. He seems genuine, at least he does now after knowing him for 10 months. Of course, when I finally see myself w/ something good, a shela gets in the mix. We'll see. *sigh* I het to admit that I HATE not getting what I want!

 

We all hate not getting what we want. It's good to not get everything you want. Have patience, it'll eventually come.

 

How do Leo's Flirt? http://www.google.com/search?q=how+...ient=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official

 

I'm a Leo and I admit that I'm easily more conceited and egotistical than most people I know. I've learned to not be so self-centered over the last few years, though. I wouldn't suggest that anybody pursue a Leo (like me) if they aren't willing to complement him/boost his ego.