Can a Man who is 67 successfully have sex with a woman who is 39?

I am 39. I recently began interacting with a man who is 67. We have not yet had sex, but I can't wait. The only thing is: he hasn't had sex in a while. I wonder if he's too old to have sex in a way where he can be in charge and on top (I prefer missionary). I know with Hugh Hefner the girls have to do all the work while he just lays there.

I don't want that. I'm fine with his age, but I don't want to hurt him (what if he has a bad hip or something). Also, I don't want to be the person who has to do all the movement. Hmm. I'm attracted to the father -daughter dynamic but I just want to see how much real sexuality we can have.

Anybody?
Tell me about stamina? Movement issues? Hardness/Erection possibilities? Best positions?

P.S. I have tried to talk to him about this, but the relationship is new and he is shy. He will talk about his horny past days ...but says "I wonder if I still have it in me?" I suggested Viagra..... but maybe I'm being naive and there are other issues.... like joints, heart, etc. Help!

 

If he does not have prostate issues he should be great and if anything like me have s great deal of stamina but the first time, if he has not had sex in a while, he may be a little excited and perhaps pre-mature. But I tell you a 67 year old man will savor or shall I say should savor a 39 year old woman --- plus just think SynthiaR how many predominant men of age have trophy ladies who get pregnant.

 

It sounds like there is only one way to find out.

 

If only Anna Nicole was still alive...

 

I hope it works out for you

 

Yay! Since you're speaking from experience, that gives me hope. Thanks for the tip about the first time.

Yeah... we're taking it slow. Besides he lives a several hours away and we likely won't see each other again for a couple of months. We're constantly emailing and phoning each other. Just glad he's techno-savvy -- on Facebook and everything (not like my real dad lol)

 

LOL
Hey, not fair. I think her guy was like 88. Strangely, I don't think of 67 as really old. Maybe cause my dad is 75.

Well, it's an interesting experience that I defintely want to have. (yes, I know I have daddy issues).


Does anyone else have advice? Will I be expect to be a "rider" so he can just lay there and not exert too much?

 

Hey - I am 71 and would love to do a woman your age!

 

One issue, he might get tired of doing push ups faster than a younger man would.
Fore play is not for women only.
And a variety of positions might be best. The two of you will have to practice until you get the "its time to move into our favorite position for finishing" down right.

 

Old balls.

 

Without giving away my age, let's just say that I can handle a woman in her 20s. And I can do it without viagra. It may take my poor old engine a little longer to warm up. But just like my old 1966 GTO, I'm a smooth ride with alot of power and comfort. Trust me when I say, that you can't say the same for most of what's currently cursing today's roads.

 

lucky ol' bastard....

too much emphasis placed on age and 'performance issues', me thinks. pull out all his grey pubic hairs, Synthia. that'll get 'im goin'....

 

You know it's a vegetarian diet and mental attitude. I avoid the problems most seniors get by not eating garbage. Therefore my prostrate is in good shape. As for the rest, I just love making love and I don't care if the woman is young, old, etc.

Before my wife died, we used to swing. One of my favorite memories was a night when us old folks got together with a young couple in their early 20s. I'll just say that it was a very enjoyable evening for everyone.

 

no, no, VOT, i meant the guy is lucky he's gittin' some from a much younger woman, not that he's lucky his prostate still works, or his johnson.

the prostate thing...well, there iz vays, und der ist vays...i think some of that issue is genetic. my dad said at 70, 'Son, i'd fuck a snake if someone would hold his head...'. i'm still laughing every time i think of it.

if you do that nudist thing, you're still going to swing...at least some parts will

 

I speak from experience. I dated an older gentleman for awhile. He was 72, he also used viagara...but honey when he got ready he was good to go for hours. I was wishing the event would end.

The good thing about older guys is they have enough experience and wisdom to slow down and relish every moment with you. Younger guys tend to do that the first time but subsequently get lost in the "them" moment and forget about you. Older guys appreciate what they have and recognize it doesn't come easy. Everything is better with an older guy....imho.

 

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Thanks for this insight. I'm insatiable and think I'd enjoy going for hours, ha ha.