Boo.... sad crappy relationship problems

okay, well i have been going out with this girl for a year and a half, and i love her more than anything. well she dumped me bc she thought we needed some time apart, which was very understandable bc she hasnt ever really been single.

well that lasted for about half a month before one night when we ended up hanging out alone, she told me that we were made for eachother and she didnt feel like herself without me. now, ever since that (its been a few weeks) she's been quite different than before, and sometimes quite evil (shes the sweetest person ever and hasnt said like anything close to hurting someone, well, until lately lol)

and in the midst of all these problems, i tell her that i think we should have a night alone bc it'd help heal things over, and she tells me that a night alone w/ me (we dont have sex) is just temporary happiness, and shes being pesimistic just about everything....

i want to be with her more than anything, but i put just so much time/work into giving her just about everything i can and try to make her happy (which she hasnt been lately) that i dont find it worth it to be happy only like half the time, and the other half be alone by myself basically in my own sorrow, what should i do?

btw, feel free to say u cant help, bc i'd hafta write pages and pages for you to get everything

 

well, when she made the comment on 'a night alone w/ me (we dont have sex) is just temporary happiness' it sounds like perhaps marriage. but then again, i have no clue. the best thing i can say is just confront her with your feelings and see what she has to say... if all else fails, she may not be the right person for you

 

she is using you for emotional resons.
You need to find out how she really feels about you.