Ok i LIKE kissing my boyfriend...but..hes not really a good kisser. i mean i'm only like the 3rd girl hes kissed..and i kissed like i duno 10 guys or something. he says i'm a good kisser and all...but him, its different haha. like, he opens his mouth too much and kinda gets slobber all over me! i dont wanna say that, thats so mean! what can i do??? thanks!
lol I kissed one of those types...i dont really know what you would say to him though.. I have tried subtle hints b4, ya know, like wiping your face off after your dont and making sure he sees....lol maybe if you like close your mouth more it would make him think he might have to too. I have always wondered what to say to someone about that too...although i would probably just be honest.. in a nice way, especially seeing as he isnt that experienced he should understand
I had one of those boyfriends too! I tired subtly hinting, and not so subtly hinting... he just didn't get it. He wasn't the most observant fellow ever though. I kept on pulling away from kissing when he was really missing my mouth.. he'd end up blocking a nostril somehow while kissing, so I could barely breathe, which is what made me pull back. I think that the best method would be to just flat out tell him, you love that he's really into kissing you but you like lips to stay with lips, and getting saliva on your cheeks ain't the greatest thing ever. Well, maybe phrase it nicer than that, but don't hint around it, just tell him. Some guys don't get it unless you lay it out for them.
Thats kinda shallow, to dump someone for being a bad kisser. If the rest of the relationship is fine, you can always work on that small part. No relationship is perfect...I mean, if kissing was the worst of my problems in any relationship, I'd be so happy. Things could be so much worse. Just communictae, its so easy to become a good kisser. But I consider myself, and all the girls I have been with average to good kissers.
I've experienced bad kissers, none of them were actually my boyfriend (that could sound wrong, I was single. ) Anyways, that means that I've never had to try and sort the problem out, so unfortunately I can't help you there. :/
Just tell him how you feel. You'll never get what you want if you try and play games ot drop hints. I've learned guys don't pick them up very well. Show him. He might be embarrassed at first, but I'm sure if he likes you, he'll want to learn how to please you.
Tell him that he isn't that great of a kisser and that it's a big turn off for you. Then you two should practice. Tell him what he is doing wrong and right use props, or whatever.
Just tell him! and/or, show him how to be a better kisser, that could get fun. I was naturally a great kisser.
I love kissing, and I know how it is to kiss someone who's not that great at it...it's a big turn-off. I would say...be gentle and light-hearted about it when you tell him. Maybe make a joke out of it...be like "babe, you're gonna suck my entire mouth in..." or something...and then maybe in a sexy way and a smile on, say "Here...close a little..." and take his mouth gently in your hands and show him how it's done. Then he should get the hint. If he's the kinda guy who will get his pride hurt, then I dunno...but hopefully he'll just be grateful that you're willing to help him out and not be a shallow bitch about it...lol.
I was the first girl my boyfriend had ever kissed and our first all out kiss was reaaaaaally sloppy. So, after a few more of those, I told him that I was going to kiss him and for him not to move. Then I showed him what I liked. He followed my lead after that and it was awesome. Doing it in a subtle and sexy way like that won't really pop a guy's ego.
whats wrong with getting saliva on your cheek?? i think you should talk to him about it at the first place i never rate kissing abilities or giving head or sex, last two been done from love to me from only one person, and im not the best either so i find it yes you can call it shallow and there is never a bad kisser unless hes bitting you
Just slurp it up! If you're already kissing, then you're already exchanging body fluids...and saliva out of the mouth is just the same as in! I've never had problems with spit dripping or anything...but if it did, I'd just use my tongue or something to get it off.
Communication is the only answer. There is a difference between being mean and being honest. Basically just let him know that he needs to work on how he kisses and that you want to help him. If he's not an asshole he'll be eager to learn. If he is an asshole, well this is a good way to find out, and in that case you should dump him anyway.
