ARRRR can you handle anger?

i usually can... i often turn it inwards to depression but i can handle it.

dan cant. he got mad at me and just broke the smoke detector and who knows what else cause i just have to tune it out. i just sit there and rock and go to another place.

he's a GREAT person but damn... he can NOT handle anger.

 

ill let you know if i ever get angry

 

hehe if i had a boyfriend who exploded more than me i think i would probably provoke him.....i like to poke fires!

 

well, now IM angry cause he has to cause a scene. wtf... act like an adult.

 

anger management classes

 

A lot of people cannot handle anger, that's why they go to anger management classes. I handle anger by crying, sleeping & taking drugs. I guess you could say I don't handle anger.

 

he's a great person but when he explodes.. i just really wish i was some where else. it makes me so upset.

 

most times i can, i'll usually take it out when i go to the gym, but then there are times were i just get so pissed off that i explode.

 

tazer, mase, bet those will change habits quickly

 

hahaha my tazer is right here.

 

well there you go, give him a time out.

 

hahaha tempting.

 

Sprinkle some Comet on his burger.

 

It takes alot to really get me angry. it's been so long since the last time I don't remember how I am.

 

I'm likely to throw dishes, candles, something when in a fight with a lover. Those are always the worst. I've damn fought with some skank ass bitch before and never got so angry as when fighting a lover. That makes it so much worse.

Sometimes I handle my temper so well, but I let it get out of hand from time to time. The weird thing is, if I'm drinking I control it better. When I'm sober the throwing of things happens more often. I've never thrown something in the hopes of hitting anyone though.

 

i hear ya. when im sober, i dont get super mad like that.. well, i do but usually i just vent and say "fuck it! fuck this shit! arrrr! im so fucking pissed!!!!"

then i go have a cig. and im "okay"

 

tonight i am in a hostile mood. i dont know why, that usually isnt my demeanor, but for some reason, i am, i guess in just a bitchy ass mood.
hmmmmmmm. Anyways, for the most part i can handle my anger, but then again i have that certain tone to my voice that sometimes comes across as me being a bitch or in a fucked up mood when i am not meaning too.

 

Something's in the air tonight...

 

I handle it pretty well these days, but when I was younger I was a bit of a hot head

 

I had too much anger in me when I was younger. I had a lot of issues I needed to deal with.

My head still gets a lil' hot from time to time but I can handle it and it doesn't control me.



I grew up in a family of yellers. My husband grew up in a family who won't listen to you if you yell. When we were dating he warned me, "You can talk to me but if you yell I won't hear you". This actually worked out better for me. I had a few bad learning experiences on how to adjust to this but today I prefer it over anything else. There's no yelling in my house but you can say exactly what is on your mind and you will be heard.