Are there any guys on the earth (do you think) that don't always think about sex

This question comes up because it seems to me like a guy only is interested in a girl based on how she looks or what he imagines that she can do for him sexually, and guys are always thinking about "is this girl hot? is that girl sexy? she has nice tits, her ass is huge, i wanna fuck her, i wouldn't fuck her if you paid me."
I mean it seems that is all guys of any age from age 14 and up think about. All the darn time. Am I wrong about this? This is a 100% serious question. And I am already bisexual so if you people here convince me that I in fact am correct about this, I no lie will just start looking at girls and ignoring guys. I can't take it anymore.

 

I always think about sex, but its always about doing it with other guys.

 

we think about it a lot, but you're giving us a bad rap...

 

Hmmm.

Well, sex is a huge part of life.

What annoys me is how so many women speak out saying that having a relationship isn't all about sex, more often than not that is what they, the women, want themselves.

I talk a lot about sex, yes. But I ain't gonna go down that path until I get married. BTDT. I had a wife once. I'm old enough that I can live my life to my standards. And I say that truly, sex is for the husband and wife, not boyfriends and girlfriends. But that's for me. You go do what you want, I don't care.

Since my wife left, I have had a few girlfriends, and they are not much different than the other girlfriends I had before my wife- usually by the second date we were making out, and by the third date fucking. Who wanted it? Not just me, but them as well.

So I guess you may someday realize that not all men want sex. Men like me.

I like the other fine points of women. I refer then to a theory I had since college that I call the "bioelectromagnetic spectrum". I am quite positive there has already been other studies on it as well. I did a paper on it, and back then I found nothing done on it. I won't get into that theory here.

I like to cuddle, go for walks, and better yet- talk. Sex is fun, sure. Who am I to say it's not?

 

no

 

I'm not thinking about sex right now. :0

 

i don't always think about sex. however, as a social creature, i am always thinking about ways to connect to other beings, so typically i'm thinking about how to converse with a person and how to enjoy their company. Sex just happens to be one way to enjoy a connection.

 

To answer OP's main question: yes there are guys out there that don't always think about sex. That doesn't mean that they never think about it, just that they do to a much, much lesser extent than men whom fit that often true stereotype. I see some of my friends fitting into either group, and I see myself changing from being sex-minded in my youth to becoming part of the, IMHO, smaller group who still do but way less frequently.

Sex was always on my mind from the time I was 6 or 7 until about age 18. Coincidentally, I developed other deeper interests after I had a few psychedelic experiences under my belt, between high school graduation and the end of my first year at college (side note: I am now a sophomore and turn 20 on April 22).

I have recently questioned my sexuality because of this, but I have found that I am still 100% straight and still form a looks-based opinion on SOME women. The women whose appearances I do form an opinion on are almost always ones that I know well and am attracted to for reasons other than appearance. This leads me to believe that my sub-conscience has changed so that appearances come later down this list while viewing potential mates.

I think it is important to include that I feel my psychedelic experiences are at least in part responsible for my shift in thinking; I view this as a good thing. Out of that, my advice to women thinking like the OP is to examine the possibility that men who RESPONSIBLY use psychedelics are more likely to be part of the smaller group of men that are not sex-minded. Should she find this true, then begin searching for a mate within the group of responsible psychedelic users.

 

I'm a girl and I ALWAYS think about sex. I rarely stop thinking about it, even when I'm getting it and it's fucking good. I know other girls who do this. Might be less likely with women, but we do it too.

As for men who don't think about it permanently; yes they do exist. A lot of what you've explain tends to be within peers and of certain age groups. Though even if they think about it a lot, it doesn't mean that it's all that matters.

 

I am tired of women acting like guys are somehow scum for having the sex drive that nature designed for us over the course of a few million years of evolution. We are supposed to have that urge, it's natural, we are not pervs. Sex makes the human world go round, it's not dirty or evil or creepy for men to want to fuck women and look for things that we find attractive such as big tits. We are wired for that. Wide hips too, we like that, not because we are gross, because we are natures creatures and these behaviors are beneficial to our species. The same shit goes on with all kinds of animals on this planet. It's natural.

 

No, And the real issue would be, if you start having relationships with guys with these terms in the for front they def will not last very long.

 

If you think about it, the answer is very simple and logical.

Ever hear the saying: "You never know the worth of water until the well runs dry."

Then, there are other things like don't go grocery shopping while your hungry.

If you're thirsty, you're always thinking about something to drink. If you're hungry, you have food on your mind. But, when you've had enough, you start thinking about other things. So, the answer is obvious.

Men are constantly thinking about sex because they are constantly NOT GETTING ENOUGH.

 

Given time - absolutely. Try to think about sex when you you haven't pooped in a week, or there's a small blaze going on in your bladder, or you bend down to pick up a penny and have to stumble over to nearby car to push yourself upright. Ohhh - there's lots of guys who don't think about sex all the time.

 

Yup. Look at it in these terms: Women, we will never understand what it feels like to have a period and women will never understand how it feels for a guy to be horny. It's a different kind of feeling than they get when aroused. They can't relate and get frustrated just because they don't understand what it feels like. And you're right in the FACT that we're hard wired this way and can't really do anything about it. Seems like we can control it enough to build civilization though, so I think we deserve a fucking break for being human and not denying our instinctual urge to propagate the goddamned species.

Sheesh...

 

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And why should people look at it in such convoluted terms? Have you ever been with a woman?

 

It is not as hard wired as some imagine. The more satisfied I am over all, the less I have thought about sex.

I actually took the occasion to try and unravel the conditioned responses I found in myself around sex, i.e. the physiological symptoms of seeing or meeting an attractive member of the opposite sex. I felt it had the propensity of objectifying human beings and it certainly distorted my clear perception of attributes of personality. That is, I was susceptible to being seduced by beauty or innuendo.

I can tell you that there is indeed, more cultural or habitual motivation for sexual considerations, then there is, biological or chemical imperative. Having said this, I have to admit I have no way of measuring my chemical levels in concert with my observations. For instance I could be less concerned with sexual thoughts simply because of age, but that scenario doesn't account for the level of my conscious efforts around this issue.

 

What a crock of shit.

 

Annnnnnd you're a WOMAN, right?

 

For a lot of us guys who don't think about it much, it's because we have a lot of ambitions and other things to focus on. Ironically, a lot of girls don't actually want a guy like that - (whether they know it or not).

A guy with a life won't be able to give you as much attention as a guy with no life (who tends to think about sex more).

It doesn't mean we ambitious types don't know how to love, but that's the complaint we here from the more clingy girls that don't understand us as well.