Any BiMarriedMen satisfied with sex with wife

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by TomBerk, Aug 1, 2023.

  1. TomBerk

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    When I walked down the aisle, i knw I was Bi, bought was sure I could be happy with the sex I was having with my new bride. We were having great sex

    Fast forward a few decades. I never have sex with her but do with men.

    Are there any guys, who know they are Bi, but can be satisfied with sex with their wives?
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    If you are bi man, you really can't live without sex with other guys? I wonder
     
  2. MJSkier

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    What a great question. For me I never found my bi side till I was 38. It was at a time the wife didn’t want sex. Anyway found an adult book store got head from a guy. Explored more and realized it was easy to hook up with men. But also I liked all the things I was exploring.
    Fast forward got caught by the wife. Almost ended my marriage. We’re 3 year in from that day.
    To answer the question yes I miss sex with men. I do watch gay porn and fantasize about man sex a lot. Honestly not sure if I can go the rest of my like with out sex with men. But I’m trying to.
    I guess the real question am I satisfied with sex with the wife. As far as having sex with a woman yes it’s good but not like with a man
     
  3. topper

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    Im sure there are many married guys, who had a great sex life with their wives, who never thought about guys at all until push came to shove and the sex at home ended. Even my wife knew that I could not survive on jerking off alone. Sex toys and experimenting offered some solice,but just didn't cut it. We were in an industry in NYC with loads of wonderful gay men and women. Bi experimentation with toys led to growing up and being real about Love and Sex which in turn led to doing it with a very close friend who needed comfort too. I think we were into 40 yrs of marraige, kid and grandkids. We discovered the difference and were able to do a Logical Choice for all involved. You dont have to be into guys .I never thought of it as anything more then physical therapy. Giving and geting a great blowjob, fucking and getting fucked is something that feels great. Being able to share with wife makes it a no problem situation.
    We are all silver seniors and at this point being able to share any kind of pleasure is a Good Thing. Never thought of it until it until my wife introduced the idea., so I guess Im still satisfied by my loving, no sex for her,wife. I would be happily satisfied with sex with my wife, but thats over and done with, except for the occassional Strapon
     
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  4. Suburbanray

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    My answer is sadly Nope! Sexless marriage.
     
  5. dd788snipe

    dd788snipe Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Same here. :(
     
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  6. RIJACO

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    My wife likes to have sex, but it's never enough. I have a high sex drive and am always looking for some fun with either sex.
     
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  7. Slimjim1122

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    I’m on my second marriage. I’m kind of like RIJACO. Have had a pretty good sex life with wives but never enough.
    Always straight as an arrow but..Between marriages, saw a guy with a huge beautiful cock..I thought I would like to play with that!!
    Unfortunately didn’t get to play with him but played with some others.
     
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  8. Slimjim1122

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    Problem is I’m picky, need to feel safe etc
    And for me it’s hard to find guys. CL was pretty good but since then it’s hard to meet guys I’m interested in
     
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  9. RIJACO

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    I'm on my second too - first wife couldn't get enough of me and tired me out as she always wanted sex :)
     
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  10. Slimjim1122

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    That sounds like a problem I would have liked to have
     
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  11. Nigel82355

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    Not interested with sex with the wife anymore!… I only want cock!!!
     
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  12. Slimjim1122

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    I need some cock.
    What is a good secure website to find a handsome cock?
    I’ve tried adam4adam need something else
     
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  13. Suburbanray

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    sniffies.com has a lot of bi,& straight / bi curious guys on it in addition to gay guys.
     
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  15. LowHangers

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    My first wife was a sexual vixen for about 15 years then lost her desire for having lots of sex, sometimes going without for months at a time which led me to mutually sucking cock with other married men in the same situation. I was still periodically having sex with her, but I was sucking cock 3-4 times a week in between having sex with her. My desire for cock was overwhelming at times. The last five years of that 25 years marriage did not involve the two of us having sex at all as I was perfectly content sucking cock without her knowledge. My present wife was informed by myself of my love for sucking cock and found it to be rather erotic as she and I were involved with a number of different men and a couple of women together. We're now married 10 years and (about 3-4 months ago) she has pretty much lost interest in sex. The arthritis in her knees makes having sex very uncomfortable rather than enjoyable. But she doesn't want her situation to hinder me from having sex without her involvement. Yes, I have two other women who I've had sex with alongside my wife and about four other men, two are regular partners. Actually, at this point in my life all I want is cock anymore. Ever since my wife encouraged me to take our man's cock in my ass, I have become an anal slut and have made my ass available to multiple men at the same time. I love being repeatedly fucked by a group of men.
     
  16. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Like many guys here, sex with the wife is satisfying, though not nearly enough for various reasons. I must say though, my wife is a real trooper and very open minded, which I will always cherish her for. I'm into quite a few kinks/fetishes that no woman would consider to be "manly or masculine." Not only has my wife been open-minded and supportive, but she also encourages incorporating those kinky fetishes into a regular part of our sex life
     
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  17. Curious69

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    We used to have a great sex life. Lots of fun but unfortunately she loss interest like most woman do. We do the 69 once in awhile but that’s it.
    I became curious when the sex stopped.
     
  18. Lovnflman

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    I considered my wife my sexual soul mate. OVER THE TOP SEX LIFE! Now nothing. :(
    Her mental sexuality changed. Like some say, the brain is the greatest sex organ.
     
  19. LowHangers

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    My wife has evolved the very same way but has not and will not change how I feel about her. Yes, being my second and final wife she is my soul mate and best friend and that is going to the grave with each of us. For 10 years she's known of my bisexuality and has embraced it knowing it is who I am. She has many times participated as well. Her loss of desire for sex will never change how I feel about her.
     
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  20. RIJACO

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    My sentiments exactly! I've commented to those that say they will leave their wives if they stop having sex - that is not how I'm wired.

    I'm staying with my wife as long as we still love each other - even being sexually frustrated.
     
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