Anus or Vagina?

Ok girls, I know some of you like anal sex better, some of you like regular intercourse better and some of you have not even tried 1 of these options.​

I know what it feels like to "stick it in" in both places, but what do girls really prefer?​

I'd like to hear some options and/or experiences.​

Here is 1 of mine:
A couple of year ago I was seeing this girl (not in a relationship) and I convinced her to have sex with me . She was a virgin and I was not a sex expert but I had my share of experiences. She was really nervous and tense... I could barely get half of my penis in her.
I told her to get on top of me and my penis was not having any luck getting in there so I started playing with her ass a lil bit. I wet my finger with her saliva and started massaging the outside of her anus . I noticed that she was really diggin' that, she actually seemed to be into it when I started doing it.

The next day I spoke to her on the phone and she told me that she rly liked me playing around with her chocolate bunny haha. So there we were, 3 days later I was doing my thing, I started by using 1 finger in her pussy and then when she was rly wey and turned on I moved to the anus area. As soon as I touched it, she stopped me and said "Don't do that, it feels a little ackward"

Naturally I was a lil confused , and she never rly gave me a concrete answer as to why she changed her mind about anal pleasures. I did her like 2 more times after that and then I stopped seeing her cus she pissed me off (not because she wouldn't do anal).

Anyways, My guess is that she kept thinking about it and she came to the conclusion that anal sex was somehow "wrong", that it was against her morals or something. Isn't that funny?

 

I like both just as much, but I don't want anal more than once a week or so, just because the anus is not as "elastic" as the vagina and can get "stretched out" over time.

Lots of girls have mental hang ups about anal at first...it's still a "taboo" thing. At her age, she probably isn't all that comfortable with her sexuality yet and wasn't ready for anal.

 

Yeah I figured that, that's why I was surprised when she told me she liked it and even more surprised when she changed her mind for no apparent reason.
I was not gonna use anything but my fingers anyways, I could tell she was not ready, she was way too tense and I didn't want to hurt her.

Thanx 4 ur opinion Pariah.

 

and Anal sex takes the lead ladies and gentleman!
lol

 

I've done both with women, more vaginal than anal by far, however I must say anal just felt more stimulating, I just liked it more, although I won't tell any girlfriends that.:drool:

 

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I think it has everything to do with 1st time experiences. If the girl you're with has had anal in the past & the guy just shoved it in without any regard for her then he pretty much fucked it all up for every other guy after him. Which I'm sure he's pretty proud of. If a woman has had & liked it,she will keep coming back for more. Believe it or not,the only women that I've had fucked in the ass have requested it themselves. They have said that it gives them a totally different orgasm. Rarely do I go out of my way to ask a girl to give it up anally. Not that I don't care for it. Far from it. I love fucking a girl's ass. It's just that from my experience,when a woman is ready to experiment or ready to go there,she will ask for it. It has everything to do with trust. Unless of course,you are paying for it.

 

the end is kinda funny

actually when i first started thinking about anal sex i was kinda like 'i'd like to try it but i want him to want it more than i do' i didn't say anything and my ex wasn't a mindreader...

 

You're right. If a girl does it with a guy that doesn't know what he's doing she can be traumatized for life.
The best thing to do when you're with a first timer is to take it veerryy slow and not be pushy.

 

i never used to like anal.. and i never wanted it at all

but lately i have wanted it really really really bad. i dont know why.. its kind of wierd.

 

i like both the same I enjoy anal and vagina but i cant pick between one or the other its all good XP

 

The power of anal sex is taking over you! haha
So did u already try it or is it ur first time?

 

haha well i have done it before... the night i lost my virginity.. but i didnt like it because i wasnt expecting it..haha and so it lasted for like 30 seconds....lol

but after that, i just reallly wanted it because i realized how good it was. hahaha

 

The night u lost ur virginity u also did anal?
That guy got 2 for 1! what a lucky bastard! hahaha jk!

Did u try it @ all after that?

Fuck, my last time I had real anal sex was... like 3 months ago. *tear*
lol

 

well i mean... one time when i was having sex like 4 months ago, we were doing doggy and he accidentally stuck it in there.................hahahaha


but other than that no... i havent had anal since then... so yeah..he was lucky actually... hahaha

 

Accidentally huh?
I didn't know you were into blind guys! lol

 

hahahaha he wasnt looking.......and im short and he was tall soooooo

 

lol accidently eh.. *BANG* Oh sorry was that the wrong hole lol

 

Right...
At least you were cool with it, or so it seems...

 

Hi people - new here, this is my first post. Didn't bother with the intro thread yet. I have been into anal sex for some time now - must be about I guess 14 years. I'm monogamous and have long relationships usually, so I have only done it with 3-4 people in that time.

I can say this much with regard to previous comments: - yes, proceed with caution both for safety as well as comfort/security of both parties. I think regard it being dirty in a "clean" sense as stated before it's pretty easy to tell if your partner runs a clean shop or doesent - lol. If your open and talk about things and it's something you both like and want to do more there are steps people can take to keep things clean - nuff said on that nore

For me it was kinda like prettylilhippy said - discovered it one day and *poof! - was hooked. I love anal, oral,anal-oral and the person must be clean. I have been lucky in this regard with my ex's and the couple of times I was with someone who wasnt - I could tell before I even got near it - so I didn't want it. nuff said on that nore too :/

People just have to discover it I think and it doesent have to involve penetration either. Many women have told me it's very stimulating and one side benefit - U don't have to worry about getting pregnant.

For those who are more promiscuos than me I hope they exercise a lil more caution for obvious reasons. That aside, to those who are curious - try it more than once try it a few times with someone who is sensitive and patient with plenty of water based lube (oils arent as good believe it or not). If your not intruiged after a few times, then guess what - it's not for you - so big deal.

Hope to be getting to know some of you better (yes I like to joke but that wasnt a pun! - lol)

see you round.

metalgodz