Anal Sex suggestions

My boyfriend and I would like to start doing anal sex. We have Astro Glide to do it but how do we start it off so that it isn't so painful for me.

 

there are a few things...firstly the willingness to try it...


1 be relaxed, dont tense up

2 use fingers, lubricated, get used to something small.

3 if you have a vibrator or other toy use that first..

4 if you dont, just have him start slow. you be in control, he has to listen to you..how fast, deep etc.

5 enjoy.

6 its better if you dont use a condom for anal, i prefer not too, and its okay for him to cum in your butt.

 

Damn good advice April... I couldnt have said it better...

Just remember, even if you love it, there will be times when you dont. One night my wife jumped on top of me and bounced the bed clear across the room... other times it only stays in for a minute...

 

i first did anal at 16.. and ill be 18 in a few days...


i love anal orgasms.

 

I think I might like to try that. I saw a porn movie once with a gerl getting it in the ass and it turned me on, even though I was a virgin at the time.


I just lost my virginity and my b/f is BIG! 9 1/2 inches long and almost 2 inches thick. I don't think I could handle that!

 

you dont have to take all 9 inches...take what you can handle.

 

As mentioned above, just take it slow, go on top so you have control, it may take a while of playing with fingers before you can manage to fit his dick in ya.

 

april said it just perfectly but there is one thing she did not mention. if your the type that can take pain not alot just enough heres a suggestion ( me and my fiance do this all the time) right before he sticks it in your butt have him bite a part of your body, it will relax the rest of your body and take your mind off of any other pain that is going on, and if you can take that have him bite harder if you want. that gets me so hot then when he stops biting i dont feel a thing im like numb . it always helps me, im not sure for you but hey its worth a shot.

 

suggestions.. RUN!!

peace
chickens

 

Bent Over with my ass in the air, I don't think I would be in control.

I mean straight up when he gets ready to orgasm, it gets pretty intense to say the least. and he's THICK too.

 

You could try it straddling him first, just to get the feel of it. I dunno what the positions called, but it works pretty well, and most people say it hurts less.

That said, you have a vagina, for fuck's sake. Use it. Some of us ain't so fortunate.

 

One position I use on girls with anal sex that seems to work well. A sort-or missionary - type where the girl has one leg drawn up high, close to her ear and the man is on top, his arm around her leg. It seems to relax the anus and no dramas whatsoever. I know of other couples doing it this way once I put it in a story I wrote and they gave me the same feedback. Very good, no pain.


The other one, and I haven't tried it, is the girl lies on her stomach and the man is on top. Was recommended to me and I will try it with my next willing partner.

Deep penetration positions like doggy style or girl on top are best avoided until you are an expert.

Hope you enjoy it as much as I have with my partners.

Mark

 

Doggy style is basically male power sex, if you're into it cool, but if you just wanna be kinky then I wouldn't do it. You have to really trust the guy not to get pronstar delusions and start banging yr head off the wall (well, you would, wouldn't you).

If the guy's as big as you say, you can probably do pretty much anything anally that you can do... pubicly sounds so wrong, but I think that's the word. Most face-to-face stuff is pretty painless (although I speak only from secondhand info; would someone actually tell you if you hurt them during sex?)

 

If anyone suggests fisting, kill them. Someone who has their hand up yr ass can basically rip out yr guts, and I dont' think I'll ever trust anyone with that kind of power ever.

 

Do you use some kind of lube?

And how to do it the first time if it's your idea?

Maybe you older people are more comfortable asking for it but it would be tough in school if a boy said I asked to be buttfucked!

Any way to "suggest" without asking?

 

That's awesome. I love you.

 

have him start with one finger and get you loosened up with that, then add another finger until you're loosened up some more. Once you are loosened up enough, then have him enter just the head until you get used to that. SLOWLY add a little bit more and stop until you get used to that much. The key is his entering you SLOWLY. Pull out and repeat going slowly until he's all the way in.

 

girls..its really not bad, the key is relaxation, and lubrication. the more the better.

 

great adive i would defintly listen to her! anal sex feels really good, My boyfriend and i do it with me on my stomach and him on top, works pretty well that way. Anyways i love it

 

Don't ask...just slow him down during regular sex, reach down there, pull him out of you, and put the head of his cock on your anus, and slowly push it in. You don't know how much that drives me wild when a chick does that...

Or take the position on top, and put it in there yourself. Chances are, he won't argue.




Oh, and the missionary position with her legs up really high, so the guy has a good angle at the anus works great.

The best prep is great foreplay and regular sex. It's always better if it just happens, and isn't planned. The hornier the girl is and closer to orgasm she is, the easier the anal will be.

And I've said it before, but people seem to not believe me...analingus. Just make sure you're really clean down there. Damn, I love to lick a smooth, clean asshole. And that will help the girl relax even more.

And trust me...once you've had one anal orgasm...you'll definitely want another.