Am i too young?

I am in love with a girl and we have everything in common. I've felt like i have known her all my life since the night we met. I never stop thinking of her for a second...i feel like when im staring into her eyes its like staring into her soul. Shes the most beatiful person in the world. And she is not what i normally sexualy attracted to but i've never been more attracted to a person in my life.

Is this just strong teenage lust or might i really love her?

 

I'd chalk it up to lust.

 

It could well be love. The thing with love is that you can't really have a definition of love that applies to every-one.

 

First love after puberty is always intense. Ride with it. You will get over it.

 

i already had my first love after puberty...but whos to say we wont drift apart some day and then maybe 5 years from now fall in love all over again...im just glad u guys arent jerks who arent open minded to the fact that teenagers can fall inlove and yes im aware it might not be but i still feel like it is...

 

most young teens go through a few spouts of thinking they are in love, only to later decide that they weren't
a few people meet the one they stay with for their whole life in their early teens - and even younger sometimes

however, rushing to the conclusion of love can doom a relationship

calm down, maybe it's love, maybe it's not, just ride with it, and try not to let your emotions get out of control

 

I know how you feel. I was in love (or at least I thought I was) with a boy in my year. The only mistake I made was waiting too long for him. When we finally did get together everything felt so awkward and uncomfy between us because we had got to know one another as friends.
Yesterday I found out he had just kissed my best friend! So if I have any advice it would be not to take your time to approach this girl. You're not to young brother, love is love and you can't change the way you feel.
Peaceful wishes to you my friend and good luck!

 

agreed!

 

thanks for the advice guys...i have known her 7 months...and been feeling im inlove with her for about a month now...and plan to make a move some time before september rolls around...

 

now...do it now...don't wait.

 

agreed!

unless you really really really really absoluetly have no choice
do it A-S-A-P
waiting too long is a terrible thing

 

Forget it. It's too late. It ain't happening if it hasn't happend already.

Guy's do or die in this sort of thing. Once you know you know. If it took six months then you are either too young or you just don't like her enough.

For a guy, once you see her face it is either all over right away, or it just ain't happenin'.

 

Indeed, if you didn't come on too her right away then it just is not meant to be.

 

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Gotta Get It Right the First Time

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For just this once I hope that looks don't deceive

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I ain't got time for true confessions
I've got to make the move right now
Got to meet that girl somehow
I've gotta get it right the first time
That's the main thing
I can't afford to let it pass
You get it right the next time that's not the same thing
Gonna have to make the first time last
I'm not much good at conversation
I never was too smooth at comin' on real strong
If all it takes is inspiration
Then I might just have what it takes
If I don't make no bad mistakes
And I get it right the first time
That's the main thing
Can't afford to let it pass
You get it right the next time that's not the same thing
Have to make the first time last
I might find the courage yeah I might get up the nerve
But if my timing ain't just right what purpose would it serve?
I don't know I don't know I don't know how to say those first few words
If I want to put myself in touch
The first few moments mean so much
So I suppose it's now or never
Before that woman walks right out of my life
Just let me pull myself together
I've got to give it one good try
Gotta take my chance tonight
I've gotta get it right the first time
That's the main thing
I can't afford to let it pass
You get it right the next time that's not the same thing
Gonna have to make the first time last​

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-Billy Joel, from the album The Stanger




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You're going to be laughing at yourself four years from now.

 

Dont forget , it takes two to tango!

 

Don't rush with conclusions. I tought i was in love at 14, but know i know i wasn't i now i know what love tuly means and feels like.

 

i obviously dident rush into it...but she lives an hour away so if i hang out with her this friday it will only be the 3rd time..and therefor i might make a move on her if it feels right...im sure the mood will be fine we r going to a show and eating shrooms so i think its should work...

 

Ah, well, that is different. I thought you had been in regular contact for 6 months.

You are 14 and eating shrooms? That is WAY too young. I hope you do not do this often. As for myself, I only did shrooms twice in college and felt like that was quite sufficient. I did acid much more often, and felt like it had much less of a long term effect on me than shrooms did. One of my friends that was a tripper really got into them and was by far the most stable of my tripper friends to have a freak-out bad trip. He wouldn't tell anyone else that I knew, but he did tell me a small portion, it began with him opening the frig, kind of like the scene from Ghost Busters where Sigourney Weaver opens the frig and is looking down on a cliff overlooking an infinite plane with demons frolicking all about.

I wouldn't even recommend acid at your age, much less shrooms, but I don't suppose I will dissuade you, so please at least try to do it as a spiritual ceremony with a sense of gravity and seriousness.

 

Last year I swore I was in love. I wasn't. I mean, if you really think you are, then go for it, and don't wait around once you've made your decision, because you can lose her, but keep in mind that it's not always real.