Alot of sex questions from a socially awkward guy...

Ok, so I am nearing 18 and have gone to an all boys school since yr 7 and have not really had much experience with girls (unless you count tutoring). These questions have bugged me and sometimes have plagued me since I was 14 but highschool and video games got in the way. Now that I have left and graduated year 12 these questions have come back and kind of haunted me, so I would really appreciate some answers, preferably from both male and females.

Does penis length matter?( I know, alot of men have asked this, but I need to ask as well...although I heard that as long as you are average you are fine, but I also heard from friends that something like 30% of women care?) I am 5-5.5 inches...is that normal?

Does penis girth matter?(Contrary to length, I have heard that girth matters alot, something to do with the nerve endings being pressured and touched more or something.) I am around 4 inches in this department...is that normal?

What is the average penis size including length and girth? I have looked this up prior, but I could always use more sources of information...

How would I make up for it if it turns out my size is not...up to par...? A huge dildo? Sex techniques?

Do penis enhancements work?

How long should pure intercourse last? I heard for most men it was between 2-5 minutes? I heard most women want at least 15 minutes...

How long should sex including foreplay last? I heard that most women want between 30mins-1 hour.

How to last longer? Any techniques?

Where do I find and what kind of sex techniques are there? In case, I don't measure up...

How much sex do girls want, and how often?

I have phimosis...how do I deal with that? I heard you need to get circumcised, but because the tip of my !**@! is too sensitive when I touch it, would it cause
massive pain and discomfort...or make me cum to quickly? I also heard of steroid creams, and that they help. I always thought that it would correct itself between the age of 20-25 but apparently it was meant to be gone between the ages of 15-18...

How to give oral to a girl?

What is the definition of foreplay to begin with?

How long should masturbation last? I tend to be between 5-20 minutes...

How many times should I be doing it per day?

How many times is 'normal?' I usually do it twice or thrice a day...

I started to think about having sex since I first heard about when I was 7...is that normal? I didn't start masturbating until I was 14 or 15 though...

When I first started masturbating and watching porn, it would get hard super quick and fast, and it would often hurt until I was done. However over a period of 2-3
years, although I am mentally excited and feel horny physically, my penis doesn't get hard very fast...or very hard...I often have to rub it until it gets a hard and
even then, until I am near orgasm it isn't as hard as before...what happened and how do I fix this?

From a rather nervous and awkward individual...Thanks in advance.

 

sure it matters, but it's rarely a deal breaker. that size is within the normal range.

sure it matters, but it's rarely a deal breaker. i really don't remember off the top of my head what is considered normal in this one.

most likely, what you found when you looked it up was about right.

any number of ways. a huge tongue would be a good start.

nope. learn to love what you've got.

until you're both satisfied.

until you're both satisfied.

masturbate beforehand, get drunk beforehand, think about your grandma, practice. among others.

sex techniques? i don't know, watch a porno.

42.

sorry, i don't even know what that is.

with your mouth.

i dunno, google it.

until you cum.

according to federal law, once per day is required. unless you're in california, where state law requires two per day.

for your age, probably about what you're doing.

yes, you're a normal person. except you seem to worry more than average.

i don't know, painfully hard boners thankfully stop shortly after you start masturbating. if it's a little less hard than that, it's fine. if it's not hard at all, you might want to see a doctor.

 

I'minmyunderwear....Sex Therapist Extraordinarie....



Cheers Glen.

 

Awwww my little fawn don't be so concerned. U just try it and u get better from experience. Some girls like being the teacher to guide you down the path of temptation. The only thong I would be concerned about is the circumcision thing. If it is hurting u then I think u need a doctors opinion. Ya don't wanna hurt urself during sex.

 

my suggestion is to find an experianced chick and get some experience first. there are many chicks who would love to take you in and teach you

 

that's probably the most important bit of advice in this thread

 

For someone who says video games got in the way, you sure seem to have watched too much porn and ads on those sites

 

yeah - all good advice, you'll just have to investigate on your phismosis.

Heres a site on penis/erection info:
http://erectionphotos.com/frames_index.htm

here's to a lifetime of good sex,

Simon :sunny:

 

D:

So many of them are bigger than mine >.>

Am I just ridiculously insecure?

 

Instead Of Pissing Around, Why Don't You Take The Time To Respond

To The Peeps Who Have Gone To The Trouble Of Posting A Reply

To Your Original Post....??

Just A Thought....



Cheers Glen.

 

And where would I find such women? But seriously, where would I find such women? :?

The amount of porn I watched went way up after Uni entrance exams.

And to I'minyourunderwear, I mean't when it comes to oral, is there anything on the internet that is accurate? Books? Sources of information? I know I could ask the girl, but I am looking for...pre-experience knowledge I guess you could call it.

How did I piss around? I just didn't reply to the other posts yet, and the one I did respond to just happened to be the last one on the thread.

 

You are my sons age. It is always hard to give a child sex education but parents really should do it. My parents got me books like Joy of Sex.

It really depends on the woman but really they should not care. There are things a small penis can do that can be quite pleasurable.

Once again it depends on the woman. Personally it should not matter.

I doubt a dildo would be necessary but there are sex techniques that can help. Every woman is different. Some have a lot of difficulty reaching orgasm and others orgasm very easily.

I would not recommend it.

It really depends on the sex partner.

Timing it and worrying about it would take the fun out of it. Just go with the flow and do not get to anxiety ridden.

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Read books like Joy of sex or find an experienced girl who can teach you.

It depends on the individual. No one is the same.

This I do not know. look on Google or ask a Doctor.

You need to stimulate her clitoris and the area between her vagina and her anus. There are other erogenous zones you can look up as well.

Cuddling, kissing touching erogenous zones, and heavy petting.

As often and as many times a day as you want.

You sound normal to me.

Don't over think it. Go with what comes natural and you will be fine.

 

Wow, thanks for all those links Isadoran!

Alot of the the advice seems to be find an experienced girl to teach me. Now comes the problem of shedding my nervousness when talking to women, but that is a different issue for a different thread.

 

Sorry, but I can't take this thread seriously. Even if you were 18 and never had a single contact with a girl before, you'd have to be living under a rock to not know the answers to most of these questions.

I think... troll. :devil:

 

Not even trolling xxaru, more like insecure...

 

Or more like aloof... seriously, with the questions you asked if you hadn't stated your age I would've thought you were like 12 or 13.

And FYI, insecurity is what will ruin your chances with girls... not the size of your dick.

 

I am often the mother around here that the teens come to with very similar questions. I am surrounded by teenagers where I live. One 18-year old that hangs out with my son would have ended up a dad if he had taken a girl up on her sex advances but he turned her down because he is not in a hurry to lose his virginity. He is waiting for miss right. The next guy she got with knocked her up. I know two 18 year old male virgins who have had several opportunities to be active but are very picky. So whether this individual is a troll or not the questions he is asking are very normal for his age. Or at least the age he claims he is.

 

well just because someone got pregnant doesn't mean that if she had hypothetical sex with someone else at a different time she would have gotten pregnant then.

someone should let those guys know that they're fucking themselves with their pickiness. gotta get on that before the opportunities dry up.

 

R u sure u like girls at all? I dunno many guys who do and have never had the time for them.

 

Wait, didn't she use protection? I didn't get much sex-ed, but I still learnt about protection in year 8...

And those boys have good self-control, I always feel horny >.> I sometimes ejaculate when masturbating, and then for some reason I feel like I didn't fully ejaculate or let it out. I feel like there is still some left near the tip that just doesn't get out...kind of like, wanting to piss real bad, but without needing to actually piss. I end up remaining horny and 15 minutes later, I'm at it again >.> And no xxaru, I am still not trolling.

If you are asking me of my sexuality, I am straight, so yes I am very interested in girls. That being said, I feel awkward because I have found some dudes attractive...

Maybe I am bisexual?

Bicurious?