After UNPROTECTED SEX.........

Okay...I think I'm super paranoid(maybe because I just lost my virginity lol)...but I had sex with my bf with no condom, 2 days after my period. Which I believe is the "ovulation" stage for women, where we have higher chances of getting pregnant due to the awaiting eggs ready to be fertilized. I'm scared right now, I was wondering when would I be able to tell if I were pregnant or not? In 1 wk? 2 wks?? arrrgh I gotta know(is there a way to find out right away before I even show pregnancy symptoms )...I mean he pulled out his penis before he cummed but I just want to make sure he didn't make a single droplet or else I'm dead

 

If he pulled out exactly in time don't worry about it. You gotta learn to stop being paranoid, especially when there is no reason to be.

 

well what IF I were pregnant?? will it take awhile 4 me to find out?

 

you'd know by next month if you don't get your period. if it was in the last 72 hours you can go to a pharmacy if you're 17+ and get the morning after pill (plan b)

 

Like CVS pharmacy right?^^ So when I go there, what should I ask for? Do you have any "morning after pills"?? Is that exactly what it is called?

 

does that "morning pill" have any side effects?

 

oh man:

http://womenshealth.about.com/b/2004/08/25/morning-after-pill-side-effects.htm

 

your ovulation period is 48 hours and it starts exaclty 14 days before your period so you unless you have a 15 day cycle in between periods then you're more than fine. i always figure a week after and about a week before i think i should start i'm safe. and if you don't want to deal with the paranoia than use a condom hun. i mean i love the pull and prey method i use it regularly. but i've also learned how to not worry myself into a pregnancy scare. i've had a few and really if you stress alot about it it can cause you to be late. lots of things can. change of appetite. increase in the amout of pot you been tokin. stress. and sometimes it's just late for no good reason. best of luck to you
kush

 

If all else fails, just kill the baby.

 

But how come I found this:

Ovulation usually takes place 14 days after the beginning of your menstrual cycle. The time of ovulation within the menstrual cycle is determined by the luteal phase, which is usually 12 to 16 days long. You can calculate the time of ovulation within your cycle by subtracting the length of your luteal phase from the length of your cycle. For example, if your cycle is 28 days long and your luteal phase is 12 days long, the ovulation will occur on day 16 of your cycle (28-12=16). The exact time of ovulation may vary within your cycle, because ovulation can be delayed by a number of factors such as stress, illness, diet, or increased physical activity.

And I had my period for like 5 to 6 days.....

 

well in a perfect 28 day cycle 14 days before and 14 days after are the same. 14+14=28 =]
and everyone is different and what did i say about shit that can cause delay in cycle. i didn't say anything wrong. i was just tryin to help. hunny i'm willing to bet you'll be fine. just don't stress it.

 

FYI, My menstrual period just finished 3 days ago...And I just had sex tonight

 

well have more sex than. sex it up =]

 

lol....i don't think i will after this experience...i know you're only trying to calm me down but I just wish there was some kind of test that I could take tomorrow to immediately find out if any sperm has find its way to the eggs in my body :sighs:

 

no i'm really not calming you down. it's science darlin. it's not possible for you to have gotten pregnant. because with the numbers you gave me... well it's just not. i mean do the math. sex is amazing and it's awesome and i think everyone should do it lots. just grow from this i mean take it as an experience and be more prepared next time. go talk to your parents about getting on birth control or go to your health department they will do it.

 

I don't think she's pregnant either, and as far as I know, if you were, you'd know after about 6-8 weeks.

 

condoms are so much cheaper than stress...I hope this is a lesson learned

 

ah yes it is... or no sex @ all because my bf likes to have sex "cap-less"(all his life that's what he's been doing because he has always been in a relationship)...what if he has sex with some1 who allows him to have sex without a condom(cuz I wont)?

 

omg, doesn't pre-cum contain sperm as well??

 

Yes. There is a risk even if he doesn't cum in you.
Better use a condom for piece of mind.