Whats your thoughts? My GF is a exotic dancer.I'm 46 shes 23.Sounds like the problem rite away.Age isn't the problem. It's eerie how close we are most of the time.When shes not at work shes glued to me.We both had a drug problem (heroin) We have been in a clinic past 4 yrs. We have done pretty good since then.We've lost alot of our freinds to drugs. She says I keep her straight . I keep myself straight because I can't afford to have my life that upside down again. I also have 3 kids. Ages 26- 20. 20 yr. old lives with us. He was messed up by my ex-wife @ myselfs addictoin.My ex has overdosed 2 yrs. ago. So my son needs me. Now, my GF has a vary low self esteem. She only sees the bad. When someone pays attentoin to her, it makes her feel wanted/needed? So I look the other way about her dancing. It seemed like good money in the beginning.$200-$600 aday.But at what cost? I drop her off and pick her up.(day shift) She needs attentoin whether someone is using her or if they actaully fall in love with her. She gets "regulars" who will spend money to watch her take her clothes off. I have found it totally amazing how much a guy will pay to go home with sour nuts. It's fantacy land( most of the time). I think she falls for the attentoin some times. I know she loves me, she comes home with me every nite. Shes glued to me when not at work. You can see it in someones eyes if you look. I'm not a push over. She hands me the money every nite. I feel like her pimp some times. That hurts. I'm a mellowed Hippie/biker type. Most people are intiminated by me. I've out grown drama. So when it happens I have to turn my head. Its getting hard. I guess I see beyawned her problems. She has come along ways since we've been together. I'm hoping it continues to progress. WE trip together, that is our special time together (acid sex is special)I don't want to make this so long that no one will read. I'm not a jelouse person. I think most guys would have bailed long ago. I feel lucky alot of times. Any thoughts?:cheers2:
I'm not being mean. I just wanted to say you might find people reply more if you put a couple of spacing's in that hunk of text, it is alot easier on the eyes!
Brother mad hatter, I commend you for going through what you go through. Hang in there. It takes a special person to put up with their significant other working as a stripper. I don't think I could do it. It seems that the commonality holding you two together is the drug/drug history. Sorry to hear about your friends dying and you're ex-wife. I was introduced to a stripper before...a friend hooked me up. Right away the stereotypes came to mind...well, they were all true. She slept with a lot of different men frequently and she was into drugs (I'm not necessarily against drugs)...she gave off raunchy vibes. Her personality was fine though. I learned this about her in the first 1hr and hit the road. Good luck to you and you're right I think most guys would not want to deal with what having a girl that dances brings
Thanks, somedays are harder than others. Sorry about the texting. I get wound.I've been through worse i guess.
