advice from the ladies please

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by some_guy, Dec 2, 2004.

  1. some_guy

    some_guy Member

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    i dont think i am doin a very good job at satisfying my gf when giving her oral. sometimes she seems to get into it(especially when shes drunk??) and sometimes she just lays there and i dam near have to check for a pulse. i dont know what im doin wrong can you give me some advice please. thanks.
     
  2. forest_pixie84

    forest_pixie84 Senior Member

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    hmm, not really sure what to say about that, you'd have to give me a sample first
     
  3. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    Have you tried using your fingers while you're giving her oral? Maybe while you're sucking on her clit, insert your finger(s) in her vagina. That always stimulates me, especially if you can find her G-spot! WHOA! She'll definitely have a pulse then! ;)
     
  4. some_guy

    some_guy Member

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    i've tried that without too much success although i havent found the gspot as far as i know. one time i thought i might have but i dont know for sure. seemed like i was in farther than and inch or two. tips on locating it would be helpful.
     
  5. some_guy

    some_guy Member

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    id like to, at least then i would know if i really am that clueless or if shes just hard to please. but since im not a cheater i better not
     
  6. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    um, why don't you try asking her what she likes?

    Hello, you're in a relationship - communication is a requirement for any relationship to function.

    Ask her if what you just did feels good. what feels best for her. Maybe ask her to masturbate for you, to see how she gets herself off (so long as you're willing to reciprocate if she wants). The thing with us girls is that even though it may feel like you're doing almost exactly the same thing as last time that got us off, is that if it's even a couple of millimetres off (at least for me) it's not nearly so thrilling. Also, you can't do just the same thing over and over again... variation is important as well.

    Talk to her about it, not random internet people. We haven't been in either role, and we certainly haven't been observers, so it's hard for us to offer very good specific advice.
     
  7. Jointman69

    Jointman69 High Nigga Pie

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    yo dude. i learned to eat pussy off this site, it works too, las tnight i was eating my chick she ahd a triple orgasm cuz i hit the g-spot was iw as eating her clit.

    www.screammyname.com
     
  8. forest_pixie84

    forest_pixie84 Senior Member

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    oh my god, that gets sooo intense, i remember walking a little funny right after an occasion...
     
  9. Lew_Cipher

    Lew_Cipher Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Find a good looking lesbian to do your girl. If she gets off with the lesbian and not you then you know the problem.

    =P


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  10. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

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    now seriously .. that's a thing i did while i was with my ex boyfriend...
    well.. thats just one of the 1billion reasons of y he became an EX ...:D


    (hey that's my 300th post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YAY!!!!!)
     
  11. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Ask her what she enjoys. When you're kissing her there, try things and ask if she likes them, or what would really turn her on. It's the only sure-fire way you'll know for sure. I like to guide my husband and let him know when he's doing something exceptionally well, so that he'll continue doing it! ;)

    Peace...
     
  12. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    hey, that's one of the reasons why I broke up with my ex too! well, he told me I should get a girlfriend, experiment with her, and tell him about it. I don't think so. I'm all about the monogamy.
     
  13. Nathan11

    Nathan11 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Unfortunatley, insertion during oral wont always work.
    Many, many females have few or no nerve endings in the vaginal tube, so insertion doesn't work.
    Pressure on the clitorous will work though.
     
  14. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

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  15. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    what? not even true.
     
  16. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    nope, it's not true. that's where the G spot is located! If you find that you'll have her in ecstasy!
     
  17. chica17

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    Dude, lol, my ex-bf {now refered to as the asshole for totally dif. reasons} told me his trick to giving me oral. He used his toungue and spelled out his abc's, lol it worked i orgasmed twice, lol :p:)
     
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