About masturbation

Hi im 17 and ive been masterbating since i was 13/14 (also a good opening line for a chick...). anyway, i always wondered whether masterbation affects you in the future i mean i do it almost every day, so is it going to affect my sexual talent when im 30. i personally dont think it would but i wanted to hear some opinions/experiences from people. thanks

 

I rather doubt it will affect your actual "talent" with a woman, unless you practice that whole start/stop thing that's supposed to make a man last longer (afraid I don't know the details of that). It will, however, make you more talented at getting yourself off. Just not necessarily your lady.

 

Great pick up line!

Masturbation will not affect your future at all. Knock yourself out...!
By the way, imhurria is speaking of Kegal Excersices, where you stop the flow of urine, and start again, several times when urinating. Once you get the hang of it, you can work the Kegal muscles without urinating. Stronger Kegals are thought to increase both urine and orgasm control.

 

speaking from personal experience, it is not a good thing to do.

1. It takes you away from getting the real thing.

2. More difficult to get an erection.

3. Your nerves become numb and the sensitivity is lost once you do the real thing. Which means you won't feel a damn thing when she goes down on you.

Difficult as it was to overcome this addiction, I've managed to keep clean and today enjoy a wonderful sex life.

 

Load of total shit.

1 - no it doesn't, you can do both - due to actually having sex being a million times better than masterbating, who'd chose a wank over a fuck?

2 - Obviously if you've got yourself off 5 times in one day you're gonna struggle to get it up again - same as if you have sex 5 times in a day, the good thing is that next day you'll be raring to go again.

3 - Rubbish.

I enjoy a wonderful sex life AND masterbate incessantly, in fact i probably masterbate more the more sex I'm having, due to just generally being hornier all the time.

Vlad, just enjoy yourself, you can't over do it, or damage yourself - and the more you know about pleasuring yourself, the more you'll be able to teach the hot chicks you are shagging when you are 30.

 

It's important to be able to control your orgasmic responce, and we all know...

Practice Makes Perfect



The moe in control you are, the better lover you will be.

 

I second that! I am not perfect yet, but still trying...

alot...

 

ye thanks for clearing that to me, my friend told me about this whole thing so i started to worry myself. well i guess its back to the old bating days.

 

well, being that I am a girl, it may not be true for guys. I am 18 and I have been masturbating since I was 7. That's right, 7. it lets you know what gets you off. and when you know what gets you off, you can help the ladies get you off.

 

wow...i assume you've gotten really good at it.

 

every one should do it.So they want be so angry all the time.You have to relieve your self sometimes b/c sometimes your partner gives out before you do

 

Let me just say this--It's very addictive. People may laugh(oh how they laugh), but it really is. It's like, sometimes I can't stop. I have to do it. Then when I can stop for a while, I just pick up the habit again. Masterbation addiction is some serious shit.

 

i rarely masturbate... dunno why...

 

Actually, this is, to an extent, true. Your penis can become desensitized, but the problem can be fixed by a simple lack of masturbation. Men who have masturbated chronically for many years, especially one's who do so rather "roughly," can be desensitized. It's not a real problem though.

 

it depends on the person. every one has a differint response to it.


its best not to make ignorint genrelations when everyone is so differint.

 

In my opinion, masturbation, much like chocolate, solves everything.

Nothing wrong with having a sly hand-shandy, it helps you find out what you enjoy, and feels damned good too... I think the world would be a better place if everyone masturbated.

 

Friends and lovers come and go, but my hand has never betrayed me, cheated on me (that I know of) or left me home alone.

 

masturbation saved my marriage


I am horny all the time and would have sex several times a day if I could.

My wife is more of the 2 to 3 times a month type.

masturbation as given me a way to tend to my needs and stay faithful

One word of caution. The longer I have been without sex and the more I have
masturbated, the longer it takes me to finish naturally.

This can be good or bad depending on my partner

My wife tends to climax quickly and gets unhappy if it takes much longer
to finish after she is done. I can understand. I don;t want my penis played
with afterwards either.

 

I think it depends on the mindset you are in when you masterbate as to how it affects your sex life with women. If you are just wanking it to pass the time, that's not good. Otherwise go for it. Just don't do it so much it becomes a chore, or habit that you do just whenever. Masterbating regularly is healthy for your reproductive organs and your state of mind. So have fun.

 

Can't agree more