Hello there people. I'm 19yo and still virgin, i'm a man btw. The thing is, i get excited when me and some girl are kissing, i love this feeling, whoever when we go to penetration or even "the play" before penetration i dont know, i just cant get a right erection, i mean, i get a little nervous, it is i just can get a good erection to penetration, even if i get erection is not for much time! My first experience i was to nervous and the girl was frustated i never spoken to me again, after that i'm get a hard time calm myself, but even trying relaxing is very hard for me! Need help. i'm with a girl right now, she doesn know i'm virgin im pretty sure she is not. And i know she expected good stuff from me! When we are making out my erection is good, normal. Is just when we go to "serious stuff" i get little nervous and screw things up, i even think in use Viagra, but i think is a bad stuff. SOmeone help me ! Sorry for my english !
Just tell this girl you`re a virgin when the time comes to you guys getting intimate. If she isn`t patient with you, then how do you expect to get yourself to calm down? Don`t worry about it! I think any girl should be lucky to have a virgin (NO STD`S!!!) <3 Good Luck
i dont know, i think she will be disapointed when i tell that that i'm a virgin, and i know you girls dont like unexperienced guy right. How can i stop worrying with that? Can i have some Viagra or some protein i dont know, just for first time?
You just gotta relax.. its hard to do, trust me. That happened to me the first time i had sex, i was just too anxious. Me and my girl gave it another shot a few days later, and it was great! Just give it time.
If she is disappointed in you breaking this news to her, then I'd say it's not worth sharing the first experience for yourself with her. Things will go a lot better if she knows and you both take things slowly. I think pressure probably has a lot to do with it...
Yes, but see here in this foruns and other sites, woman like man that know what he do right? And if she talk about me to other girls mocking for something i dont know if "rights girls" really exist haha. I'm freakin out a little bit haha Dont know what to do. i was thinkin, maybe i should stop masturbating for a while or not? some tips may help ! Thanks for the adivices!
i don't think taking viagra once will hurt you if that's the route you decide to go. if he ever wants to have sex, it's going to have to be with someone. the older he gets the less likely he is to find someone who's willing to have sex with a virgin.
Just tell her you're a virgin. If you pretend you've had experience doing this, she might think you have erectile dysfunction or something. Honestly, I doubt there is anything wrong with you. My boyfriend had this same problem when we first started having sex. He'd slept with one girl before me, one time. It was a meaningless thing, but he admitted he had the problem with her and couldn't even finish. He was really nervous when it came to being intimate with me especially since we were and are in love; he'd go soft right after penetration or even before and couldn't get it back. I got through it with him, supported him, and made him feel sexy anyway and now our sex life is amazing and he goes for a long time
Thi- what you have is "performance anxiety" - you are afraid you won't get erect, or lose your erection, and that is what happens, because you screw with your brain as much as your penis. Every guy has experienced this, and when you are a virgin it is especially true. You are so nervous... Viagra is for older guys, don't use it. Tell her you are a virgin, and if she has experience, she may want to initiate you into the post-virgin club. The next problem might be premature ejaculation - see my thread, as 27,000+ other guys have, on this subject in then "Sexual Health' forum. You are not alone. We all have been there...
Yes i guess it is the anxiety too, thanks for the advice people! Btw, is there some tip or something that i can do to be more confident and hard? If i stop 2 days maybe? Thank again!
