I think the alleged stalker is not doing the right thing obviously, but I would have called him out on day one. Not a difficult situation.
Anyone can be a peeping tom, but do it at your own risk. Remember what happened to Peeping Tom a thousand years ago in Conventry when he looked out his window at Lady Godiva: http://s554.photobucket.com/albums/jj440/31earthmade/vidimini/?action=view¤t=peepingtom.flv .
Bwahahahaha! This is one of the most hilarious things I've ever heard! Maybe that explains my preference for prostitutes in their late 30s. And the fact that most of my girlfriends have been older than me. And the fact that my hottest sex has been with very promiscuous women. And the fact that I've turned down two virgins in my time because I was turned off by the idea of being their first. And the fact that my porn consumption is heavily MILF-oriented. Sorry, Ari. You're wrong. Way wrong. I absolutely despise asexual innocence in women (along with presumptuous coyness). But nice try.