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So lets start off by saying that I'm very comfy with my man. I am the type of woman that likes him to be in complete control of me.........with that being said

we have tried anal a few times, but only sucessful 1 time. how can we do this with out it being painful for me? we use lube but it's still painful. when i tell him that he stops right away, he doesn't want to hurt me.

also, he likes his ass to be licked and played with. since this is my first time doing this to a guy, do any of you have suggestions on how and when i should do this?

thanks

Melissa

 

go back through the anal posts--lots of good advice

use some Extra Strength Oragel, a numbing gel for toothaches, etc. Rub it on your hole and into it, wait about 5 minutes. ALSO, use a vibrator up front. The Oragel will take the edge off but not so much that you won't feel anything. The main thing is: you gotta wanna have it up your ass, it shouldn't hurt so much that it can't feel good with the use of a vibrator.

Licking his ass: make sure he is squeaky clean, have him lay on his back with his knees apart and in air, go there while sucking him off or have him kneel over your face backwards--if you like submission then him over your face is the best way--he is in control of how long his ass is on your mouth--this is a good tit fuck position also

 

.....a little stretching of the anal sphyncter by the use of a few of his fingers, without penis penetration, and over a period of a few days or more, will get you and it prepared. Why o why, do folks think they can just dive right into an area prepared for an entirely different use? Make sense?