Female spankers are mainly Lesbian or at best bi-sexual from a male point of view. Hetro females prefer to be spanked by a man, which if you...
I might tolerate a man wearing panties but that would be the limit, and also would very much depend on what sort of panties as well.
Have you considered getting caned. I know it is more difficult to take but you will really feel the benefits of a caning all day after at work.
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