ever gotten to a point in a relationship

where you want to slap them the second they open their mouth because you just dont even want to hear it? i swear next time that bastard goes off on me im going to chop off his head and mount it on my wall. k, just needed to vent. but this relationship is weird, i can barely stand him but then the people i love most are the people i come home to every day. which he is one of them. but sometimes i just wish he would fall in a hole. right now i feel that way.

 

i felt that way alot during my last relationship.. i didnt even want to look at him! he disgusted me so much.. and hearing his voice... made me queezy at the stomach!

but there were times when i loved him so much...

but i understand completley what you are saying!

(p.s. i havnt seen you around that much lately... glad your back!)

 

I wouldn't wanna be in a relationship where I hate the person. It was like that with my dad 'cause he was a total drunk. I just avoided him. If I was ever in that kinda relationship with a chick I'd dump the bitch on the spot but that's the type of person I am.

 

well you gotta think what brought you to together...and i guess some relationships are just like that...just cause you get mad at him sometimes doesnt mean your relationship is weird...wanting to throw him down a hole...ok a little weird lol nah just joking

im sure it will work out then if not you will have learnt a few lessons for the future

xxxx

 

It doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship to me. Why do you stay with someone that you wish to be physically abusive and violent toward? Or stay with someone that you say you hate? Sounds to me that you are not right for each other for whatever reason, and you are just holding on to him because you think you love him. I have never wanted to slap anyone that I love.

 

i dont love him. i have love for him, but its not like that. we are just close friends, but we do have a sexual relationship. i guess i just get frustrated with him sometimes. its hard living with almost all guys.

 

Once i dated a guy last summer and all I could think about while he was talking oh my god please shut the fuck up I felt like knocking myself unconcious to put myself out of the fucking misery of his voice. i couldn't even stand the person enough to talk to him about it I just stopped taking his calls which was fucked but if you had to listen to him talk you would do the same thing.

 

So, you dump someone for being a bad kisser....But you deal with that? ^ mixed priorities...:H

 

I thikn it's cool that you're in an unorthedox relationship. It can be hard though. And I think in any relationship both partners feel that way at some point. I feel that way about Erik a few times a month. He's not very good with words sometimes and doesn't know when to just shut the fuck up instead of having to throw in some nasty passive aggressive comment, just to have the last word in. I don't slap him, which is good, but the fact that I want to is ok. It's ok for you too as long as you don't really hit him. I'm sure living with a bunch of guys is tough. They're so insesitive and never say the right thing.

 

I'm with you!