Head (blow) & Hand Jobs & Dry Sex

I agree - there is no guarantee - but it's sometimes useful to see the other side rather than just 'Britney Spears had sex so I should too'.

'Let your instincts guide you' - what a load of crap. I know you may feel the wisdom of Buddha flowing through your veins at the ripe age of 21, but this girl is 15 and probably the last thing she should be doing is relying on 'instincts'. She should be using her head - trying to see past her hormones that are telling her to rush into things she may not be ready for. Your whole life direction is dictated in the years 15-20, maybe a little pause for reflection is in order to decide what is best.

 

jees she jsut asked a question shes 15. its about being a teenager. she wants to please her man. 16 is when most things are alright, but headjob? ive not had one but i say that goes down to 14. how is it even a big deal? penis gets touched from a much earlier age for stimulation and mouth is used with making out, which can spread disease, if your really paranoid. the onyl sacred part is the vagina which is only used for sex and babies.

flavoured condom for oral? yeh caus that kid is GONNA have std's spewin out of his wang. flavoured condoms compromise safety? have you ever touched a man's penis? its really not that much of a monster. both have never had sex. of course theres a CHANCE that hell have dormant diseases. but theres a CHANCE youll get run over next time you walk across the road, or theres a CHANCE youve got the disease already and are gonna die anyway!

just lick his penis. then get him to lick your clitoris. there, problem solved, and two horny teenagers satisfied and can now teach their experiences on to their peers.

 

Sorry amigo, but that is where you are wrong, I can confidently say that knew more than is required of a 20 year old about sex, and what it means, when I was 15.

To The original poster can I say, it is good and sensible that you have decided to choose other forms of expression because you know youre not ready for sex. I think that is very admirable, sex is to easy, not having sex is the hard part.

 

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babe, the best advice... try to imagine how it feels for him, what do you think you would like if you were in his position , imagine you have a penis and someone is touching it or has it in their mouth, and then, direct all the energy in your whole body into whatever youre using to please him... it will feel electric, and you will feel electric...

 

kk i'm new to the boards but hmmm...

so we have a 15 year old young lady that wants to give a hand job, blow job, and or have dry sex. That seems safe to me. after reading all of the negitive post about this and there were some positive ones also. I would have to say go for it.

I'm 26 now and lost my verginty when i was 18. Long drawn out story of why i desided to do this. If i can give you any advice any at all.

Stick to oral sex until your are ready to take the risk of having a child. My current GF and I only have sex once a month. I wish it was more, but if i look at it, the more we have sex the more chances of her having a child. although i would love to have one, and could support one i don't think that i'm ready for it. and we have gone a few months with out having sex.

I have done a great deal, from people watching to public places to even being used as a human ash tray! Now that sex is "normal" for the most part i really don't care if i get it or not. from my prospective I enjoy being with a woman i love. and love is the key. I would say at 15 living a sheltered life that i didn't have an understanding at that age. You maybe different like everyone is. but before you have sex. enjoy the joy of no sex and still get the gratifcation out of it. I do beleive that you will enjoy the "for play" more thn you do the sex part of it.

Do i wish that i had waited? NO
do i wish that it had been with someone else? NO, the person that i was with was more experanced, by alot. I had a good teacher, guess what i get for dating oder women at the time.

At any rate, have a good time no matter what you do , just make sure the the guy/girl respects you. Don't do anything that you are unsure about. If you want to make adult dessions then think like an adult, i would say hard to do at 15. but then again i don't know where you are in your life.

 

while u realy dont need to be doin that shit, if your still going to, well do it right. for one make the guy comfortable and as far as hand jobs go, do not hold on too hard (it hurts like hell).

 

Yeah I'm 15 and I'm not a virgin and I've given head. I've never gave a hand job though... heh I guess I just skipped that... Well I dont what to say uhh like before you do anything you think its gonan be hard to do it right or your gonna like mess up and do it wrong but once you start you'll know what your doing. Its weird... but yeah go for it giving head and having sex isnt as big of a deal as ppl say it is....and actually sex is quite fun hehe
Go for it girl!!!

 

guys like head and hand jobs... i dont really know what they think of dry sex, but I my boyfriend seems to be into it.. dont do anything until you are ready though, i didnt lose my virginity until i was 17 and I still wish i waited a little longer than I did

 

well, listen. The actual point of this thread is for people to give me TIPS AND HINTS on Head, Hand and Dry. If i wasnted your thoughts about it, i would've asked.

A few have just done as i have asked, and i dont mean to sounds bitcy but i'm sick of people just telling me their thoughts. I want tips please. Hints. Things to help me with the actual act of head, Hand and/or Dry sex.