a few months ago i got out of a 2.5 year long relationship. after this i met a new guy and we fell for each other. we partied together and jammed together and got really, really close. then.. we ended up hooking up and basically acting like a couple. he asked me if i was his girlfriend, and i told him that while i loved being with him and being that close to him, i just couldn't put a label on our relationship because i JUST got out of a long term one and i kinda feared commitment... now it's been a couple weeks since he asked me that, and i realize that i am ready to be his girlfriend now. we basically are together, we just didn't label ourselves.. but the thing is, i also just found out that he's leaving in 6 weeks. this breaks my heart. i don't know if i should tell him that i'm ready to be his official girlfriend or if i should just leave it where it's at.. with us "together" kinda unofficially.. because these last 6 weeks i'll get with him are weeks that i want to be special.. arrg. this is so tough.
trust me ive been here exactly before...dont just say to yourself its gonna be a 6 week thing until he leaves cause its not gonna work out like that. you risk falling madly in love with him and having a long distance relationship (which only works for a short period of time) tell him you dont want to really label yourselves but DO tell him your feelings are becoming deeper and maybe he'll get the message if not, fuck it! just tell him to take you in his arms...... hope it all works put for ya sweetness xxxx
