people should stop asking 'why me?'

you shouldnt get hung up asking 'whyme'
because that assumes that the bad occurance is inevitable and that you want to know why your were 'picked' when for every bad thing that happens there will be someone at the end of it. always. that person will feel bad. there seems to be no reason its happened. but it has. and for everything that happens, it happens to something. someone has to be at end of it. if not you, someone else, then they would be thinkning the same thing. sorry i dont know if i can express this how i want.
its like, humans want to know, why us, here, on earth? well it is gonna happen somewhere in the universe. so if it didnt happen to us, then we wouldnt be asking why. the fact that we sit around here is because life had to happen to something, if it happens. that something, if intelligent, will ask why. well every one of us is a human and thinks.

but you cant ask why its happened to you unless its happened to you. and so if your asking why, then it happened to you.

like, 'why am -I- so and so?' well if you werent, then you wouldnt be you. it happened to you, and so if it haddnt happened to you, then YOU wouldnt be 'you', you be somethign else, and have never thought it, so the idea would be oblivious.


argh i dont feel like im going anywherer, merely going in circl;es

can anyone understand what im sayin?

 

I certainly do. I ask that all the time because I'm sick of being the one dealing with bullshit while i see my peers and freinds skip along as if life is just peachy.

But I know everything happens for a reason and I have stopped asking. I just like to complain now.

 

i dont really think of it as happening for a reason. but that certain things are inevitable and they happen to 'someone', generally the person has no say in the matter, or doesnt realise what say they could do to prevent it, since its inevitable to happen to someone. we are all 'someone' and so if bad things never happened to us, we wouldnt really be someone in the first place. or if we have bad traits, if no one had those traits, then it wouldnt be a concept of our mind, but because it is, it means someone must have them, and since we are someone, well have some trait thats not great or something bad that happens to us. just different people get thigns different amounts, but thats caus if it happened to everyone the same amount, it wouldnt be an issue! since your thinknin about it, it has to happen to someone, and your someone!
yar m'hardies

 

that was too confusing for me!!!

 

I asked why me this weekend when my hair fell out

 

your HAIR fell out?

 

I Bleached it and if fell out in front... It only left about an inch of hair in the front ... I learned though... im never bleaching my hair again... Just add it to the pile of sh*t that goes wrong in my life

 

aww, I'm so sorry. well, think of it this way! now you can go out and buy some cute scarves and tie them around as a headband!!

 

Thats exactly what i've done... But it still sucks.... After i finished crying about it... The first words out of my mouth were "WHY ME" Sh*t like this always happens to me....

 

You're saying that instead of "why me?", we should be asking "why I?".