Wow people...

Discussion in 'Mind Games' started by forest_pixie84, Mar 16, 2005.

  1. forest_pixie84

    forest_pixie84 Senior Member

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    I'm kinda a loner recently but what do you think? Do you think it's neccisary to have an active social life?
     
  2. sassyfunk

    sassyfunk Member

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    What do you think? Your asking because you doubt not having a social life..Therefore you are contemplating that you need one? Its all a personal thing. I personally used to be a big loner and now have a very active social life. Sometimes I miss the solitude but I find now that it drives me insane. I can't be alone for more than 10 minutes without having to find some sort distraction. Weird huh!
     
  3. forest_pixie84

    forest_pixie84 Senior Member

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    Your not weird, your just being yourself.

    anyway,
    I wish I knew, but, whatever. I'm tired of asking questions and trying to figure it out, it's like I'm constantly fighting the status of my life, I'm just gonna go with whatever I feel...

    thanks for your time :)
     
  4. shaba

    shaba Grand Inquisitor

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    Thats all you can do. Do what you feel is right, and what makes you happy.
     
  5. gumbygurl

    gumbygurl Member

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    The question is do you think it's necessary? Some people need alot of people around them whereas others are fine entertaining themselves. it all depends on your needs.
     
  6. gutshank

    gutshank Member

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    i dont think that anyone anywhere actually needs a social life to survive, i dont have much of a social life and im doing just fine
     
  7. Sullen_Girl

    Sullen_Girl Member

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    I am by far the biggest loner I know. I've asked myself that same question time and time again. "Do I have to have an active social life in order to be content?" I've come to the conclusion that it's not mandatory to achieve happiness, but it does help to achieve balance. I felt weird for always being alone. Because there are times when I crave companship and company, these are the times I reach out to friends and family. In short, I spend as much time with others as I'm comfortable with. Once I start to feel the need to climb back inside myself, I do, and I no longer feel guilty or weird about it. It's just a matter of finding out what works for you. If you're good interacting with others 20%, 50%, or 100% the time, it's ok.
     
  8. shaba

    shaba Grand Inquisitor

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    In total agreeance with you Sullen_Girl, I'm exactly the same way.
     

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