is this a good feeling or a bad feeling...??

my girlfriend and i have been together since October 29,2004
and in all the days we've been together, lately this month i have been getting a wierd feeling like i'm lost when im not around my g/f. like when she goes to work or when she is at home. but when we talk on the phone or online or even se each other, i don't get that feeling. is that a normal thing?

 

It is normal when you love someone to get attatched, but I would say you might be spending too much time with each other. Enjoy your space and time apart, it will be beneficial to your relationship in the long run.

 

I agree ^^^^

That "can't live without them" kind of love is wild and romantic, but it can be detrimental to your relationship if you let it go too far. Like MyAphrodesiac says, spending time apart is important and you should enjoy it - go out with your boys, or get a new hobby... it'll give you something else to talk about with your gf and will keep you from just waiting to see her.

 

thanks for the awesome help!
but is this also normal, hat i miss her so much that i start to cry?

 

I think that the fact that you care for her so much is sweet, but everyone needs some alone time.

Peace

 

It you actually start to cry from missing her while she's at work or something, that's probably not a good thing... I mean it's sweet to miss her but personally I wouldn't think it's healthy to be THAT attached.

 

well, I know that it would be weird for me to go a day with out talking to my boyfriend, but like super grrl said, if your crying like when she goes to work or something like that, that cant be good. its just not healthy.. especially seeing as you havent been together all that long. I think that in a newer relationship, its better to not spend all your time together because that is how the relationship can became ruined..my experience anyway. One of u may get sick of the other or something...
Its good that you love her, just make sure that you have your own life aside from her once in a while.

 

Codependency is not normal. You're 20 friggin' years old. Way too soon to be that tied down.

 

ok theres this guy that goes to my school and hes sooo beautiful to me ......hes like the guy of my dreams the only other hippie i know to live in the same town but theres a problem i think he likes this other girl. name: emily. today i saw her goin barefoot and it totally turned me off (i don't mean sexually.)......i mean it made me realize shes one of those fakie ppl......cuz the only other person ive seen go barefoot at school are me and my dream dude it pissed me off cuz i know she doesn't know i want him but it still pisses me off that she can be different from who she is and be comfortable with it does anyone understand that?................................PEACE LOVE FREEDOM..........................................