Which kind of sex would you prefer?

If you had the option of having sex that was just straightforward sex, i.e. "making love," i.e. penis in vagina, possibly some mutual sucking, and kissing and rubbing, (the kind of sex you see in most movies when they have a "sex scene")

or kinky sex, involving someone (or taking turns) being tied up and used as a sex toy, including but not limited to face-sitting/smothering, "forced" coitus, forced foot worship, application (while bound) of candle wax, clothespins, whips, gags, blindfolds...

which would you be more likely to choose? :X

-Jeffrey

 

i am for normal sex nothing crazy like that or stuff that would even hurt lol no although... i agree with trying different positions or doing it on different places i.e. plane to make it more fun thats the "kinkiest" id make it

 

Monogamous, frequent, extended, passionate, varied, loving sex. that doesn't come close to what i meant........

The kind I like is when it lasts for hours, and both lovers know each other so well, and are so keen to make it good for the other, that the result is a shivering, trembling, dizzy, faint, satisfied, inexpicably pleasurable few hours of intimate spiritual oneness that for me, when I experienced it for the first time, was far beyond what I could have ever imagined was possible.
That is the kind of sex I prefer, pretty hard to explain it though, I still think the reality of it is beyond words to describe. You have to be there.......it happened when I was 39, and was well worth the wait. Though I have had wonderful sex before that, nothing prepared me for the experience, I was blown away....no pun intended, she blew my mind!

 

I"m not into the PAIN scene, but just about anything else is open season!

 

I prefer the kind that requires a large scraper, a power washer and a shop vac to clean up afterward. And perhaps some drywall repair and paint.

 

Abused is more like it.........
Were you peeking?

 

you are alot lighter than i thought...100 lbs. max. I'd guess. Thanx for the best darn sex I ever had by far. You think the neighbours were jealous? It sure got noisy at times, huh?

 

I'm more of a straight love making type of guy. I'll go to great lengths to please my partner, but there is a limit to how kinky I get, which admittedly is not very kinky. There are certain things that I just feel foolish doing and that I am not turned on by.

 

kinky, definately. Slow passionate loving has it's moments, but it's not somethign I want to do all the time. Bondage, teasing, rough... that's the stuff that madly turns me on

 

I like my crazy porno esque sex where u just bang the shit out of the girl , that's what i prefer, but when it's someone special, it's nice to go real slow and be passionate about it.

Peace and Love,
Dan

 

I have my limits, I won't drink piss, and scatological sex (shite), no way, and i dont really enjoy doing the backdoor, dirtroad, hershey highway, whatever you call it, it isn't a turn on with me. Teasing absolutely is, and a little bit of bondage, only with soft ties, though. I do like when it gets really intense, not rough, but all out hard and fast sex is great. unusual places do something for me, and I like damn near any position that is humanly possible. I like oral a lot, both giving and getting, 69 is always great, standing, carrying, countertop, against a wall, etc. and outdoors is fun, slowdancing naked is a really nice intro, and in the car adds variety too. In the shower, ocean, lake, mountaintop, sunny meadow, all work for me. The period sex thing isn't something I have tried, and am not in a rush to. Food like chocolate pudding, fruit, and whipped cream, all make eating a little more exciting too. and I do like to make it last as long as possible, and 3 hours a day works, and even a couple of 3 hour go's in a day the odd time can happen. I like kissing, can do it for half an hour during foreplay. My best times are when I know she is totally satisfied, and content.
If I can go until she is all tuckered out and can't go no more, I feel I achieved my goal. Oddly, in my current relationship, I have had times where I went so long without coming, that when we quit, I felt no need to. I was fully contented and satisfied without coming. That was never the case before, esp. when much younger. I had to come, it was a necessity, or I got the ol blue balls thing. But no more......I am happy about that.
I would say that we both are nympho's and that is a good thing to agree on.
She once joked to me, I'm only with you cuz of your looks, and cuz you're good in bed.

I told her that was the best thing anyone ever said to me. It sure beats how I felt when they told me I had a high IQ.......just by a bit.

 

I would completley agree when I was with somone I wasn't attracted to it had to be kinky all the time for there to be even a slight chance for me to get turned on enough for sex. Now that it's good it would be fun once in awhile but it's not something I need to get off or even want frequently.

 

never have used a toy.......so i must agree, they just get in the way. My last partner had a vibrator, but it only came out when I was away, or when it did come out when I was there, it just laid there, unused. I think the God gave us enough fingers, toes, lips, tongues, and sex organs to get the job done just fine. I am not against toys, just never used one. I have been tied up, and I've used feathers, food, and massage oil, but thats about it.

 

just like sex with the one l love..

 

My sweet, sweet, darling, you never let me down...


-Jeffrey

 

I think you've made way too many assumptions, and are not empathising with how people who enjoy the other kinds of sex may feel. Just because straightforward vanilla sex is fine for you and all you need, doesn't mean that people who like more spice in it have something wrong with them, some sort of complex.

I can easily enjoy the entire gamut of what two people can do sexually. If I'm with a more reserved girl, I can enjoy whatever she's willing to do up to. If I'm with a more raunchy girl, she'd be hard-pressed to move beyond where I'm willing to go. And as time goes by, my limits get stretched even when I thought there was no more room to expand into!

Actually, most of the sex I've had in my life had absolutely nothing to do with toys. But beyond toys, my original question has to do with kink. I mentioned face-smothering and foot worship, and I hardly think that bondage counts as toys. More about control-games. By no means do I want to suggest that only this kind of sex is worthwhile. I love the long, slow, passionate, lasting sex that you have over a period of 7 hours... That's fantastic, too.

-Jeffrey

 

sex with another person, i like that

 

there's a big difference between liking and needing toys. I like my toys a lot, but I don't require them for orgasming... it's just a lot better and stronger with 'em than just my fingers.

I've had 'real sex' as you put it. It's fine and all, but I find things that are a little kinkier much more erotic. I think a big part of that is the whole bondage/dominated thing makes me feel desired, like they really need to be with me. All that romantic crap just feels like society telling a guy what he is -supposed- to do for his girlfriend, what he is -supposed- to buy. It doesn't feel real. Yes, I love flowers... but I'd rather have a couple gerber daisies than a dozen red roses. Yes, romantic sex can be grand, but I'd rather have a little kink thrown in with it, even if it's as small as having my wrists held down or being in a submissive position during intercourse (ie doggy)

 

I can answer this question easily. I love having my ass slapped. AAAHHHH!

 

and you, my friend, have a beautiful ass for slapping


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