I think sometimes it can be kind of cute and romantic...but if you ask in a lame way or it's totally the wrong moment, it probably wouldn't be impressive.
yeah as long as you know her and dont just randomly ask some random person.................random.......heh
It's NEVER wrong. It shows respect. You older females will agree, I'm sure. I've always been very shy. (Probably why I was a virgin till age 19! She was 44 BTW!) I agree it depends on the situation. You may get bold and try to kiss her cheek, and she'll shove her tongue down your throat. Who can say?
I don't think it's "wrong" to ask a girl before you kiss her, but it is better to just kiss her. That conveys your confidence and that will excite her more than being asked. I remember the last girl I dated, we had been hanging out that night, went to her friend's party, then had something to eat at a restaurant with her friend. Then she drove me back to my car which was at the ice cream shop she and her mom own. She invited me in and we had ice cream at 2:00 a.m. The whole time, I was wondering/wanting to kiss her. "Should I do it now? How about now?" Kept not feeling the right "moment." Then we went out to our cars, and while we were saying goodbye, I just leaned in and kissed her! It was quite well-received, and we stood there making out by the cars for a while. I think it was better than asking, "Is it alright if I kiss you now?" If the girl is receptive to your affectionate advances at all, she will meet you with the kiss. If she's not, she may shy away from it, or not allow it to happen at all. That's when you break off the attempt and possibly apologize, explaining that you wanted to kiss her and thought she wanted to kiss you, and you didn't mean to upset her. But if you're going to attempt to kiss her, you need to be relatively sure that she feels the same about you. That should not be so hard, although I admit it is often unclear. I think it's usually fair to assume that if you've been hanging out and having a good time, sticking close and stuff, it's worth a try. But I think it is always worth trying without asking, if it's worth trying at all. -Jeffrey
It can be really cute and sweet and romantic. Like if you look into her eyes and smile at her and kinda whisper her "can I kiss you?".. Awww. But of course it depends of the situation like the others already said.
asking the girl is a very good idea, just be xool about it, dont speak too loud you know? asking her will let her know that you care about her feelings toward it and it might be a better kiss if she knows it is comeing so she can prepare and if she doesnt you can eliminate the chance of her biring you and humiliating, just get her alone and be romantic, most girls i know (including me) love romance and she will eat it right up!!
like mattInVegas said, just kiss her on the cheek and if she is ready she will shove her tounge down your throat.
no no no... you have to do it like Rhett Butler to Miss Scarlett... "I'm going to kiss you now... I'm going to kiss you hard, and I'm going to kiss you long, and you're going to like it." Or not...
Jeffrey's advice is spot on. Don't ask, just do. Of course some sense of the moment is required too, but generally if the girl is hanging out with you she's doing it for a reason and is most probably thinking "why doesn't the stupid bastard just kiss me?".
I am really happy with your answers. the fact is I now know that girl for 4 months and she had to pass hard things since then. I think she knows how I feel about her, I may try to explain it to her before asking to kiss her. it's a weird situation, we totally connect on the trust and the communication, I think that we both need to believe that it is possible to be happy again. anyways, I will take your wise advices with me! thx
