Head (blow) & Hand Jobs & Dry Sex

Any handy helpful hints?

I have a rough idea on waht to do, but still, its very very vauge and i wanna gve him a really good one that he'll love.

C'mon, i need some help because my boyfriend and i are getting bored with making out.


GIMME SOME HINTS AND HANDY TIPS PLEASE!

*grovels at feet of fellow message-boarders*

 

c'mon.... help a needing person.

its his birthday really soon too and its being held at my place ........... help me pleeeeeeeeaaaaaassssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

 

Usually my comment to the "dry sex" question would not to be beat around the bush and get a dick up ya... but seeing your only 15 that dont apply.

My only advice.... is no teeth!

 

there are lots of similar threads here id help u but as Sophisticaste said... i find you lil bit young

 

hmmmm depends what hes into i can try and help though

 

please, do help me....

mate, 15 year olds now-a-days are doing much more than this....

my friend was 12 when she lost her virginity

 

that is sad...

 

i like getting head, just give the guy head hell like it

 

Don't be so naive, this does not make it acceptable nor right.

To be as cliche as possible. If all your friends jumped off a cliff and killed themselves.......

Save it for when you have something to work with, it is worth the wait.

-Litos

 

At 15 (and 12!? Is your friend Russian?) you don't understand sex/sexual favors. I suppose some people at that age have some understanding but it certainly isn't just something to do when you're "bored" from kissing. Sex is playing with life, it's a responsibility. I'd recommend a sport or some kind of hobby if you are bored.

 

You should go and get 'bogan' tattoed on your forehead. You'll have a kid before you turn 17 and spend the rest of your life giving blowjobs to guys that call you 'slut' and 'useless bitch'.

Let me ask you a question - what decent guy will feel comfortable wanting to commit himself to a girl who has been fucked six ways from Sunday by a dozen guys since she was 15?

I know it's a waste of time - but you'll regret becoming sexually active so young. You think it's just something exciting now, a small thing of little consequence; but it really is a defining moment, a choice of where your life may go and who you'll be.

Preaching over -

 

oh for chrissake's, isn't it better that she researches this and learns about safe ways of doing it? www.literotica.com has some good articles in their how-to section, and www.clitical.com has some great articles too. For oral, USE A FLAVOURED CONDOM. It will prevent the spread of herpes and others STI's without the nastyass taste of spermicide.

other than that, communicate with your partner, and make sure you never step outside of where you're comfortable in the relationship. Don't let your partner convince you to do something you don't want to do, EVER

 

Not sure the best advice is given by people under 21 who seem to view themselves as middle-aged sex experts.

Edit: Maybe I'm just a little shitty today, but why must all you people act like you have a world of experience behind you? All this posturing and posing as if you need people to view you as Oprah? Guess I shouldn't care, but here is a LITTLE GIRL who is about to become sexually active and the comments she gets is to go for flavoured condoms...

 

Forget my comment above. I'm a grumpy bastard today.

 

[edit] After a lot of thought, I've decided that my original statement of agreeing with lacuna was wrong. I think it's all up to the original poster.

But darling, realize, you should be ready for this, it shouldn't be something you're doing because everyone else is. And also, not just because you're bored.
Just educate yourself, and be ready for when it does happen.
Ya dig?

 

um my friend who works in a hospital had to help do a C-section on a pregnant 13 year old because her body wasnt developed enough yet. that is relaly too young ot be doin that kinda shit.

as for you? 15 aint young, i lost mine when i was 14, just let him put his hand ont he back of your head to guide you and itll work out.

 

15 isn't too young to give head, lol. I mean come on... I didn't do anything sexual until I was 21, but that's pretty late. I wouldn't highly recommend having sex before you are at least 16, but we're not talking about a 12-year-old here. 15 is not ridiculously young. Most people at 15 are probably somewhat sexually active in today's world. I'm not saying that makes it right, but 16 is a reasonable age of consent even if 18 is the law in the U.S. usually. That's pretty advanced...

 

heh, I never said I was a middle-aged sex expert. I'm just a crotchety old bitch at heart. I've had two partners ever. I just have read a lot of stuff - I've researched. I think it's a good approach. By researching, I wandered onto a lot of good information about safe sex, more than just throwing a condom on for intercourse. Oral sex is becoming more and more common, and it can lead to STI's and a host of problems too. And spermicide does taste nasty, hence flavoured condoms (you should double-check that their safety hasn't been affected by flavouring them though... it should say somewhere on the box or condom package)

I was 16 when I became sexually active, and for me, I was ready. Not saying it's right for anyone else, or by necessity wrong either. But we ARE NOT going to stop someone from making choices in their lives, why not offer advice on how to be safe?

 

what a horrible thing to say! choosing to have sex at a young age does not in any way guarantee becoming a slut. in fact, being a "useless bitch" is a path one chooses.. if they want it. i was a virgin at age 15, but if i would have chosen to have sex at that age, i'm sure i would have regreted it... but it would have been my choice and i would have learned from it. if a person feels she is ready to become sexually active, i don't believe calling her a whore is the best way to persuade her not to. that said... she didn't even ask about having intercourse but instead about giving handjobs, blowjobs, and dry sex... clearly also she recognizes that she is not ready for intercourse.

for the poster of this thread, i would say, let your instincts guide you. sexual activity and pleasing your partner are very easy, natural things... as for giving head and such..you hormones (and his) will help guide you.. you will know what to do. if this is someone you really like and are comfortable with, it will be fun.. not something to be worried about doing it the wrong way.

 

make out, maybe a handjob. but don't rush into sex