hi...im new to this site, but i was wondering if anyone could answer a question for me. k...i got this guy (whom i thought was way out of my league) but we fooled around, and like i just wanna fuck, not get involved, but i dont think he knows that...and i'm too shy to just walk up and say "hey...lets just fuck"...so i was wondering if any of you (guys or girls) have been in this situation, and how did you let the person know?
get to know him better, talk about ramdom stuff. once you get confortable, ask him if he is interested in sex. be open. be honest. Are you sure this is what you want?
she isnt using anyone as long as she is on the same page as the guy on the other hand if he wants something else out of it she might hurt him. Dont be so rude, take a chill pill and move on! greg
Just be up front and honest. If he doesn't want to just fuck, then he'll say so, and it'll stop at that. If he does, well then aren't you lucky. I always say honesty is the best policy. -Litos
never been in that situation but since youve already made out with him, you might as well go for the gold and tell him you want him to be your fuck buddy, i guess..
I didnt take it the wrong way, theres really no other way to take that I guess by emphasizing the word you, it cleared it all up for me I think you should just have a heavy makeout session and then let it lead to sex if you want to to bump nasties with him...
Glad things aren't foggy anymore. And I'm sorry the word rape triggers uncomfortable feelings for you. BTW, I was thinking the same thing; start with kissing and let it flow to sex. That seems to be the most graceful way.
well dont say sorry, you didnt do no wrong.. dont really listen to me, my pms is flaring up today and i was kidding about the clearing it up for me *tap tap, is this thing on*
Call me a pig, but my option is most guys get married because they think they will get steady sex. Tell him what you want. There is plenty of guys out there that want a no strings attached f**k.
a nice bottle of wine could go a long way toward helping you in this situation I think ask him to talk sometime and bring some wine. tell him how much you enjoyed your little fooling around session, and meanwhile start the wine flowing. no guy can resist some ego stroking, and provocative talk, especially after 2 or 3 glasses of wine. if he's not inside you by the end of the bottle I would be very surprised
Perhaps he chatted with you because HE wants sex!! It's difficult to communicate about certain things until you become friends . . . so why not become buddies . . . and then you'll feel comfortable bringing up the subject. Good luck.
I tend to think that although you think you want this unattached sex, as soon as you get it from a guy who wants no attachment, you're going to find yourself with an attachment, and then you'll be pissed off that he just "used you" for sex! Be careful. -Jeffrey
I would say just tell him. Although if your luck is anything like mine, the guy will say that's fine and end up "falling in love" with you anyway. Just don't be too surprised if things get messy.
