I cant talk to girls. I'm not even a shy person, I'm very outgoing but when theres a girl that im somewhat atracted to(which seems to be most girls) i get really nervous and my throat tighents up alittle. I'm such a loser.
talking to girls isn't that great. i have no problem with it and it invariably leads to friendship with zero possibility of romantic involvment
You're not a loser kid. When I am really attracted to a guy I just work up the courage to ask him out. It works. That's how I am hanging out with this really hot guy now. And by the way, sometimes girls have so many friends that they want a boyfriend and not just another friend. Also, talking to guys is great especially when they have a great sense of humor.
Your not a loser. It's a common problem. I haven't had that problem since 4th or 5th grade when I grew some balls and told a girl I liked her (I actaully wrote a poem to her, now that's loser-ish). The thing that sucked is she liked me too but her family was moving back to Australia soon so she didn't want to hang out with me or anything since it wsould make it harder to leave if she got attached. Her mom was a co-teacher-do-hicker and I was her favorite student (beside her daughter I'm guessing)
Just because they're crazy, irrational, illogical, and overly emotional doesn't mean they aren't just people. There are probaly a few really crazy men that think like women.
