I finally have a boyfriend, but I have no clue what to do. When do we hold hands? how long to wait till we have that 1st kiss? when to give him space? what to say? He's kinda shy but real sweet, can anyone help me, any advice is apreciated. <3 Thanks
Holding hands, eh? I guess not all kids are starting earlier these days. I was already having sex by 15.
I'm rather of the opinion that the rate at which a relationship progresses on a physical level is purely organic, and completely unique to the two involved. My first guy, we kissed on the first date but didn't have sex for about 6 months. My second boyfriend ever, we had sex on the third date, and everything except oral and intercourse on the second. Whatever feels comfortable for you hon, is how fast it should go.
my advice on dating at 15 is to not date, you'll regret it all later, it's just worthless at so young an age, in my opinion
I think it's really sad that you said that. What a blessing it is to have someone who wants to be with you, and vice-versa, no matter what your age or how serious you plan to be (or don't plan to be...). I don't see any reason why someone would regret dating at 15. If anything, it helps build positive relations with the opposite (or same) sex. Or, it may help someone to learn about rejection, forgiveness, friendship, anger... I had a REALLY bad relationship when I was 17 through 19, but I don't regret it in the least. It just gave me a taste of life...
