Dude - there will always be a difference in opinion about appearance. Some girls will think you're hot while other won't - why even ask? And judging from the posts above I'd say there is a large number of arseholes on this site - so who cares what they think. If you have low self esteem will a few people saying nice things really make a difference? No. None of us internet dickheads matter, so why give us the power to judge???