how do u feel when you see someone crying? do you feel uncomfortable, bother to ask them whats wrong,try to cheer them up, or do you not care at all? i hate to see people cry, whether theyre a friend or a complete stranger. i always have to ask them whats wrong. yesterday i saw this college stundent in the bathroom crying and i had to ask her if she was ok. she said she felt really sick and i stayed and talked to her for a little while. i eventually told her i had to go but she thanked me for talking to her.
If its someone I know, I will ask them if they are okay and comfort them.... If its a stranger, then I feel as though its none of my business to ask or go up to them...(which is basically true regardless who it is, but with it someone I know, its easier to ask them if they are okay)
I hate seeing people cry.. I will ask them whats wrong and try to cheer them up... But at the same time when im crying i hate when anybody is near me... I just want to be left alone.... Sometimes i fell like i shouldn't ask otherpeople since i wouldnt want to be asked.. but i just cant keep going
i get so completely torn up when i see someone crying that i get really angry about it and walk away. sucks, huh? and when it's someone i love, all hell breaks loose and i look for whose ass i have to beat. unless it's something i perceive to be self pity. i can handle it then and help them fix it. no poitn in crying over something that can be fixed or dealt with.
see, i like people like you. Whenever i'm crying in a public washroom or something, it always kind of restores my faith in humanity when complete strangers care enough about my feelings to stop a minute and talk with me. Me on the other hand, i get really uncomfortable when people cry. And when i try to comfort them and they're just like "shmeh shmeh, nothings wrong! nothings wrong! NOTHING" im like okay whatever bye. It irritates me. Don't cry around me if you don't want my love, damnit.
I only really comfort those I know. I feel bad if i see anyone crying but it's alittle strange for me to go up to someone I dont know and see what's going on.
im the same as mystical, if its sumone i know i have to make them feel better by doin watever i possibly can lol but if its sumone i dont know i feel really bad but just let them be.
if i'm crying, i don't want anyone bothering me. it's why i hid in the restroom to begin with. in high school one time i had a fight with my bf and needed to go have a cry. WTF?! 7 little bitches follow me into the fucking bathroom, turn it into their own little drama and drag my humiliated ass to see my couselor. at least then i was able to be alone for a few minutes. i was so god damn annoyed. mind your business. if i say "i'm fine" i seriously just want you to leave, and am just trying to be nice.
yeah, what the fuck? i'm not miserable just to make you feel like a good person you fucking bitches. anyway, that's what was going through my mind but i didnt' want to hurt their feelings.
When I see someone crying I will ask them if there is anything I can do to help. Depending on what the reasons for them crying are I don't break down with them. Instead I normally get a sense of strength and try to be strong for the both of us. I've been crying since Friday afternoon. I have my breaks but for the most part I've been a faucet.
Usually I laugh at them. It takes a strong man to cry, and an even stronger man to laugh at that man j/k In all seriousness though, it depends on the situation really as to how I react
If I saw a pretty young woman alone at the bus stop, and she was crying, I'd be sure and stop and see what's up - everybody else crying in public can fuck off and keep right on crying
my work is full of mad drama and there are a couple of chicks who are always fucking crying anytime they get into it with a parent or supervisor. I give fake hugs and tell them to go to the bathroom untill they have it together. If it's some one I care about I usually start crying too and it sucks because then everyone's crying heh.
my sister in law is always finding a reason to cry. i just tell her to quit it. usually she's just being melodramatic.
I once asked a gas station attendant if he needed a hug. He appeared to be having the worst day of his life and was just in the worst of moods. It kinda freaked him out that I had asked him but it made him smile. One time I was leaning over my steering wheel with my head down, waiting for a friend to come out of the store and this couple knocked on my window and asked if I was okay, they were genuinely concerned. (even tho nothing was wrong, I was just tired)That really made my heart melt.
