How many of you had your first sexual experience with someone you’re related to? Did it continue on for long? Have you talked about it with them since?
This is an incredible sensitive topic that many feel they can't be honest about, I wouldn't advocate that anyone do it but I appreciate and understand that its how the world of sex blossoms for some people like me. Talking to someone about it all depends on the emotions surrounding the events that occurred and the depth of both persons emotional range. I've never had issues talking about it but I've been told I'm a lot more open than most.
I see nothing wrong if both parties are willing. I know cases where younger girls were taken advantage of by older men.
My cousin introduced me to masturbation and we moved on from there. It went on for at least 2 summers. No we dont talk about it, but we rarely see each other.
Not first time, but my aunt was/is heavily into gaming, she never married or had kids so she always gravitated towards me. My older sisters not so much, but with me I would spend hours over there playing games that we became almost like friends and it escalated one evening, probably about 3am, when we’d both been up all night and she had been drinking. She was teasing me about blocking my line of vision by putting her hand over my eyes or walking in front of the screen so I’d mess up and lose a life or something. Whilst doing that she gave me a hug and kind of fell forward onto my lap. I was rock hard, but more through teen hormones than pre-planning or any particular arousal due to circumstance. She noticed and the hugging went on a bit and she was kinda bouncing on me. Nothing else happened that time but she used to sit on my lap after when I was gaming, rubbing herself against me
The first time I ever felt aroused (which was all just a mental sensation, I was too young to get an erection) was due to basically seeing my sister pee. First time I masturbated I was alone and figured it out on my own. But did it in front of my family or my mom helped me figure out things I was struggling with many times for the first many years. To be clear, it was totally allowed and all involved were totally OK with it. Particularly doing it in front of my mother, who encouraged me to do it whenever I had a rush of being uncomfortably horny and really needed to just rub one out quickly and get it out of my system. But she made sure I understood this was something she felt was important and OK just for me to do in front of her. And not in anyway permission to masturbate in front of other people or in general public. I still quote the analogy my mother told me: "It's like peeing. Everybody does it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. But it's a very private thing for a lot of people. So, just because it isn't bad or dirty doesn't mean other people will feel comfortable seeing you do it or being seen doing it."
My cousin and I use to masturbate together as teens. It just seemed natural to stroke each other for pleasure. We stopped doing it once we both got interested in girls.
