When you enjoy your sex toys, can you openly enjoy them or do you have to secretly use them when you have private time?
Openly. Leave them lying around my apartment and don't mind that friends see when they're over. I also use them openly at my parents' house and leave them charging in plain view (not really any other way to charge them, honestly.)
I live alone so ya, no need to hide them. Friends know about them and dont mind. Back with my parents I hide them. Well not good enough my mother found them while cleaning and my brother used them top secretly.
Back in the day, me and my Mrs. used them on each other. Pegging was a lot of fun. Nowadays she has no interest in any sex/toys, so when I have the time it is only solo in private. Best times are when the Mrs. goes out for a weekend, and I break out the toys. I don’t even think she realizes that I still have them. they are tucked away in a box in my shop. the most embarrassing situation was one day she was supposed to be gone all day, and I broke out my Fleshlight, and put the sleeve in my bathroom sink heating up in warm water. she unexpectedly returned home shortly after she left, and walked in the bathroom and saw it. she was not a happy camper. never made that mistake again, thanks to that location sharing app.
Its hard to reason. Wife enjoyed our dildos, including our strapon types. She isn't into it as much, but I sure enjoy a good orgasm now and then. While she doesn't use them herself, she admonishes me when she sees that I have used them by myself. For that reason, unless she is doing it to me , I keep it to myself.
My wife introduced me to the pleasures of anal sex working in a finger, vibrator, and various dongs while sucking my cock. She even enjoyed using her strap on, fucking me silly but as time went by, she is no longer interested so my dildos are kept for alone time these days.
