Have you or your partner done anything that sabotaged sex? Not intending to and not to o be petty, vindictive. Just innocently or being stupid at the moment. One of my occasions to get the thread going, years ago I was going to meet a younger woman looking for older. The location was a few hours away and since I was going there it was a nice opportunity. I was happy and set but while on the road I encountered a woman on the road earlier on the road who needed help. I answered her comment about giving me a reward and I said I didn’t feel like I deserved money. She was not thinking about paying me with money and horny me accepted. Her blowjob was SO good I was not able to get it up for the younger woman. I know what she said was an excuse to leave, so all our chats were for nothing. Selfish and stupid me.
I don't recall if I've ever sabotaged myself but if something comes to mind, I'll come back here and share it!
I used to date this hot 25 year old woman when I was 45. She lived in another state, so I would fly in once a month to see her. One time we were in bed and I wanted to have sex. It was about midnight (maybe). She said that she was tired and had to get up early for school. I said, really? I mean, who is too tired for sex at 25? I was 20 years older and I had flown in to see her. Anyway, she hops on, but she wasn't her usual enthusiastic self while riding me. I lifted her off me and said, "fuck it if you're going to be half-assed about it". She was in shock and said, "no man has ever rejected me". Well, that was the end of sex that night. Sabotaged. I flew back the next day and that was the last time we ever met up again.
