I've never had this happen to me, yet. They've always ended up to be strangers. Sometimes I do ask to exchange photos, but a lot of guys don't like to do this, even though I would send him mine without any agreement between us, just to see if he'll send me his in exchange. I like to be at least a little bit attracted to him, so his picture helps. That's especially the case if we plan to fuck.
My friends wife saved us the trouble. We were talking with my friend and his wife and the wives boasted about being done with sex. My friend and I both said that we were as horny as ever. His wife is the one who said " why don't you go downstair and give each other bjs and get it over with". My friend asked me if that is something I would ever consider? It really seemed like a Logical Solution A few minutes later we couldn't talk because we were sucking each other.