Question…. do you have anal with your wife? Do you F her A? I think it is hot that your wife wants to try something new, and actually has fantasies that she wants to play out with you. Count your blessings! I say go for it. with my wife, we started out with fingers, rimming (which we both loved), and eventually works up to smaller vibes and dildos. One night I said that I wanted her *ss, and she said fine, as long as she got mine. I got hers, and I was surprised at how much she loved it. Then she reminded me of our “deal”, so I ordered a nice sized strap on, and when she opened the box, her eyes lit up. She took to it like a horse to water. She loved the role of her being a somewhat dominant male…. making me suck her c*ck and bending me over. I loved being submissive to her…. totally out of my normal wheelhouse. Besides, it shields really good! just go slow and be patient, and don’t go with some ass busting sized strap on. the one I purchased was about my sized. I figured if she could take it, so could I. back in our sexual heydays, we would schedule ahead of time, a couple nights a month that was strictly *ss play. Those nights were a lot of fun! we would both “prep” ourselves, and the fun began. reminds me of that old cereal commercial. MIKEY WON’T LIKE IT… HE HATES EVERYTHING! HEY….. MIKEY LIKES IT, HE REALLY LIKES IT! Try it…. you may turn into a Mikey!