humiliation - what is the big turn on ?

My girl friend was much the same way, loved our weekend get aways. She knew how many women I had been with and said she wanted to catch up with me. After a short slut phrase, she decided to look for quality not quantity.

 

You know I can't put my finger on it but there's something about giving a guy control over me. Telling me what to do. To me it's so kinky and erotic. It really turns me on. I usually like to take control but sometimes it's fun to just let someone else dominate you.

 

My sph fetish is definitely the main driver but I think it is also enhanced by the fact that I am outwardly much more alphaesque than beta personalitywise and general demeanour. I am confident, not socially shy or awkward around men or women and have a rather robust physicality and fearlessness without being overaggressive or confrontational. This tends to hide the fact that I am in fact that I am very beta when it comes to sexual activity. It is an extra turn on for me if far more beta guys outman me. I may not show it in public but if another guy sees that he has a way bigger penis than me and of course sees just how tiny my cock is it secretly arouses me. This is especially true if a woman sees how poorly I compare.
I had an experience where a rival for a girl's attention was pretty much conceding he had little chance getting her attention and was very shy and trepidatious around her. I had been flirting with her a lot more and he seemed to be resigned to taking a back seat.
That changed however when we crossd paths in the changerooms at a leisure centre ( not the first or last time that has been the arena where my tiny penis was outed by someone I knew) He looked quite chuffed when he saw how tiny my dick was especially compared to him. He was totally emboldened and far more confident in his pursuit of the girl in question. Neither of us won out but I was secretly aroused by the whole thing. The relatively beta guy suddenly becoming the alpha and me falling to beta status because of my tiny penis.

 

I like being poked fun at a little in a teasing way over a few things: the size of my penis when soft, the fact that I have wetting accidents/wear pull-ups and diapers, and cumming too quickly. The reason I like it is because I don't feel humiliated and there's a rush of confidence I get by refusing to let those things get to me.

 

The humiliation aspect is a bit of a misnomer because the thrill of the potential embarrassment/humiliation in regards to my tiny size supercedes the negative aspect. I often fantasize about my penis being even tinier I have even purposely had a cold shower before having sex with a paticular girl one time just for the extra kick of her reaction when she would see it no bigger than a baby. I have relatively small balls as well and they shrivel up to child size as well.

 

My girlfriend liked attention from other men especially on the dance floor. She came close to being gangbanged one night after dancing with several men and wearing a short dress and losing her panties, she was being grouped by several men at one time. One man talked about moving to a more private place. But soon other jealous women started getting upset by my girlfriends flirting. We put a stop to it before things got out of hand. It would have been her and one other woman and 7 or 8 men. And having sex was on her agenda.

 

It’s great fun for my dom girlfriend, and her guy, to have me do humiliations . Especially when it makes me uncomfortable and very embarrassed

 

I had a hook up with a friend and his girlfriend who enjoy exhibition sex. They love being watched.
Part of their kick is the voyeur being outmanned and made to play with himself while they 'showboat'
He has a big cock and I have a tiny one so this ticked their box. I have a rampant sph fetish so totally got a kick from this scenario. It was great when she mocked my tiny baby penis while lauding his obviously more manly cock.

 

That sounds hot.

 

It was an extra kick for me because not only did his gf not know I had a tiny penis I had known her from high school and had secretly fancied her. Just this fact alone was highly arousing to me because I love it when a female who knows me finds out I have a tiny dick.

 

It was just sexual fun and being able to enjoy mental and physical pleasures without any hangups or restrictions. It simply started and fun in bed and doing things that went beyond the norm, for the experience and Thrill of our playing around.

 

I was there to be an audience and extra boost for their showboating. He likes to show off his big cock and she likes to bask in his 'superior' manliness. Since my penis is particularly small I fit the requirement for their kick and of course because of my SPH thing I get my kick as well. It was great to see her naked and being fucked hard by his big cock.

 

If you take a girlfriend along, would you want her to join in the action?

 

of course

 

The look on my cuck hubby's face when I'm on my knees and I take out a big cock to suck is the best. In that moment he is so emasculated. You can get your cuck to a point where he can only cum from eating a cream pie or cleaning the BULL's cock. But we don't call what he does as cumming, only a real man's dick produces "cum." He produces clitty juice.

 

I have been a cuck for over a decade now ( with 3 different women) I have a tiny penis and very poor stamina when it comes to actual fucking. However I can masturbate a very long time while watching women being fucked by proper men. This means that I cum a lot harder with the combination of the 'humiliation' of being totally outmanned and inadequate and the heightened arousal from edging.
Strangely I get off more from being the voyeur thsn being the performer.

 

You should have your hubby also be a fluffer, encourage him to suck the cock so he can get it hard for you before it goes in. To further emasculate him, have your Bull pull out and tell him to shoot his load on your hubby's face or in his mouth.