THE DREADFUL MOMENT YOU CONFESS TO YOUR DR THAT YOU HAVE SEX WITH MEN

A couple of years my friend had prostate cancer and every so often has to do a PSA test. His wife permit him to have sex with men. Only his close friends know he is bisexual. Recently he failed the PSA test and show the cancer came back. He realized that the cum been swallowing and having his ass fuck could be reason why the test came back positive. He confess to his doctor his sexual activities with men which was pretty dreadful He retested and test came back to normal. Dr didn't say much about him being bi.

As a married man i am very discreet and hope my wife doesn't find out. This could have been me or any other men on here. I have given my wife access to my medical records and many men on this site probably also. I don't what the Dr wrote in my friend medical records and i hope this doesn't happen to anyone.

Just be careful with the men who we have sex with.

 

Your elevated PSA has nothing to do with being straight/bi/gay….. or jerking off. it is all about the orgasm. Doesn’t matter how you get it. I know. Google it…..No orgasms for a few days before the test. I did not know this, and with a family history of prostate cancer and my elevated PSA, I had to endure the dreaded prostate biopsy. Fortunately, it came back negative, and with each subsequent PSA test everything was normal. For me it was refraining from sex or jerking off a week before. I don’t wish that biopsy test on anyone.

 

Elevated PSA has to do with YOUR level of prostate specific antigen, not the levels of PSA in another man's semen. Any time YOU ejaculate (not the other guy) you tend to raise your PSA level temporarily.

However it is true that that physical stimulation on your prostate from being fucked anally by a penis or dildo can also temporarily raise your PSA, as can riding on a bicycle seat that stimulates your prostate area.

Also, a prostate infection can raise your PSA level until the infection is resolved, and prostate cancer will raise your PSA until it is treated. During a long process of diagnosis and treatment for prostate cancer, I was never asked about my sexual orientation.

The only times I have had to tell medical professionals that I am bi have been in STD clinics. I got a little careless several times and engaged in unsafe practices. That required follow-up testing. Only once was I positive for a STD. I had to take antibiotics for the clap.

 

I'm not a Urologist or Proctologist, but I know that the amount of cum that you swallow has absolutely nothing to do with Prostate problems.If you're not careful you may get an STD from swallowing semen, but you won't get Prostate cancer.

 

I didn't have my own family doctor, because those accepting new patients are so scarce around here (I moved back home to Niagara in 2005 at 43), but I finally found a newly arrived doctor who was accepting new patients in 2021, and shortly after that I developed a sharp pain my left groin area--low groin area an inch from the base of my cock and in my testicles. He had a few hours a day being a walk-in clinic too, so I thought why not take this opportunity to check him out as a possible permanent family doctor, instead of going to my main big walk-in clinic.

At first he seemed like a really nice guy, and I liked him. I told him I wasn't sure what was going on: a complication with a 2017 hernia surgery in that area, a new hernia, a prostate issue, .... He looked and touched, but didn't feel anything. He then asked my sexual history and I told him everything, with great difficulty and embarrassment, about my previous bisexuality and now homosexuality after breaking up with my last girlfriend just before Covid hit, and my excessive masturbation without orgasm since then (I told him how I had been doing a ton of edging my cock for hours every day to gay porn during the many lockdowns here, maybe only allowing myself to orgasm once every couple of months). I also mentioned if it was related to some erectile disfunction while having sex with a few guys lately, being super hard during repeated foreplay, but each time going softer so penetration kept failing when I was trying to fuck them. But when I told him all this, I could really see a subtle shift in his mannerisms towards me, somewhere in between discomfort and disgust.

He ordered blood tests and an ultrasound of my left inguinal canal & scrotum, but that didn't find anything. His final differential was muscular, or possibly things got clogged up related to my excessive masturbation and edging, and denying orgasm for so long all the time lately. So he sent me to a urologist, who found nothing. The pain gradually went away, especially as I started cumming at the end of most masturbation sessions. The ED issues continued though, and I recently started Cialis, but have yet to test it out. But I never went back to that doctor, and in early 2023 discovered one of those community health clinics that are LGBTQ-positive, which I visited finally when I decided to go on PrEP, saw a nurse practitioner (which in Canada has the training to do everything a doctor can do), who put me on the PrEP and the quarterly STI testing. She's now my regular family "doctor", and I'm very comfortable with her.

 

Even if I had been with another guy, I would never tell my doctor. he is also my wife’s primary care physician.

 

My friend is a cancer survivor and became scared the cancer came back. His wife know he have sex with men and just told the Dr incase it had to do with his sexual activities. He basically did what you stated and no sex a couple of before retaking the test. Test came back negative which was a great relief to him

 

All of my doctors have known I am bisexual. It is no big deal.