My wife (28) had been with a lot of men before we met , but she only ever did anal twice. She was really drunk both times and she did not know it was coming so it was not enjoyable. Both times were with the same guy she had been seeing. We have tried anal together probably about 5 times and she has never orgasmed or found it enjoyable. She loves being dominated in bed and has told me she is open to trying it again. I often reference it in dirty talk during sex but have not gotten down to it yet. I have a few questions for those with experience: 1) Does she need to prepare in advance with en enema? 2) How should I be initiate anal in the heat of the moment? I was thinking during 69 I could put a couple fingers in her pussy and a finger in her ass? 3) Do you always use condoms? Any advice is greatly appreciated. Hope we can find something new and enjoyable together. Thank you!
There are other threads here that go into detail about preparing the wife for anal. I have never known a woman to use an enema before the act, although it might not be a bad idea, depending on the time of day the deed will be done. I would think heat of the moment may not be the best way unless you have discussed it with her in advance. Never used a condom, but would be a good idea if you are going to put your tool anywhere else after you have finished anal. Welcome to HF. Romper
Anal sex is a process, get allot of lube, I recommend you go to Walmart and buy Eqeate water based lube, it's really good and doesn't cost allot, also go to the sex store and buy a anal training. Start small and work your way up, she has to get used to having something in her ass and wait for her to tell you when she ready for anal intercourse. Condom aren't a bad idea especially if you to do other things after anal and always remember you can go from pussy to ass but never go from ass to pussy, because if you do she may get an infection. Anal sex isn't for everybody and she may never like but if you follow these steps she may actually get into it Good luck
As a woman, anal Can be very enjoyable, I have reached orgasm with my husbands cock inside me but once everything is tight post Orgasm it can be painful to remove. Definitely use lots of lube and practice with fingers first, also try a butt plug whilst having vaginal sex too. I enjoy using a vibratory on my clitoris if we have anal for extra stimulation l. Enjoy
I used to finger her pussy and run my finger around her anus while my cock was thrusting in it. Used to give her wild orgasms. She wanted anal almost every time.
And then we wonder why so many women don't like anal! Anal penetration is the culmination of all anal play. You can think about it when you have taught a woman to enjoy anal play with all the other techniques and before that you have made her orgasm 3-4 times in the ways she knows. And yes, it can take months!
I got my first wife hooked on anal by starting with a finger, gently messaging her anus and minimal penetration while she rode my cock. She loved it. Then one evening I went all out and started rimming her anus to find it drove her wild feeling my warm, wet tongue licking her asshole which led to her asking I place my cock inside her ass. I took a number of times rimming her ass before she wanted fucked in the ass but once I did so she was wanting anal sex more often than vaginal sex.
My wife told me that she never did anything anal before I started to play with her asshole. Gently rubbing around her asshole while eating her pussy,would bring her to an orgasm. Teasing her lubed asshole with a finger tip, led to her allowing me to use a smaller pinky size buttplug. She never went any larger for fear of pain or pooping. Since I was so intent on anal fun, she made me try it, eventually pegging my ass with larger dildos . Trying to lure her into it, our limited anal experiences led to me eating her cum covered asshole which was her limit. I had no limit and have been on the recieving end of our toys ever since. She prefers giving than recieving.
