When you hook up with your Friend?

When you meet up with your friend for some fun , is it a Mutual thing where you basicly 69 and blow each other or is it one at a time? Is it just you sucking cock and your friend is on the receiving end or does he help you out too?

 

In the times I've had such a friend, it's always been mutual with one exception. Sixty-nine or taking turns, any friend (except that one exception) knew going in that if they wanted their dick sucked, so did I because I do not believe in that no reciprocation thing.

 

I've always wanted reciprocation in my casual hookups with guys in each other's homes (anonymous cocksucking in bathhouse saunas etc. is a different thing), but a few times the guy either would not suck me, or would do it barely, in comparison to my passionately sucking his cock for a long time to completion. This especially has happened when he turned out to be straight, but advertised himself as bi. Nowadays I'm not interested in just oral hookups: I want to fuck. I'm now very careful when I get together with a guy who advertises himself as bi, let alone straight: I make very sure that he loves everything about a guy's body, and not just his cock. Mostly I prefer gay men (except gay "sides", those that don't do anal--I'm done with them).

And when it comes to oral, we always end up with one guy sucking the other guy's cock first, and then switching. It might be taking turns, back-and-forth, and when I was just doing oral, eventually one guy cums, and then he goes back to sucking the other guy's cock until he cums. And I always swallow, and hope he does too. But I especially love when we eventually switch into a 69 position and suck each other's cocks simultaneously--of course as foreplay before fucking nowadays. But if it's just for oral, my favourite is both of us cumming while 69ing each other, not necessarily simultaneously, which is very rare but extremely enjoyable, but usually with one guy cumming first, with your arms tightly holding each other's bodies and asses, and never losing lip lock on each other's cocks, and swallowing every last drop, and then him continuing to suck that empty cock while the owner sucks and swallows his load.

As for that glorious simultaneous orgasm in that beautiful, perfect gay 69 embrace, it is most possible when you use some kind of verbal cues to indicate when one guy gets close, and then the guy sucking his cock easing off a bit, just gently edging him with his mouth and tongue, until he himself gets close, and then using your verbal or even physical cues to take each other over the edge simultaneously for one of the most mind blowing orgasms of your lives. OMG, I can't tell you how close you would feel to your cocksucking lover when sharing this kind of orgasm and your cum together. But, also, alas, it's hard to find a guy to 69 together in this way. In fact, most guys don't bother with the 69 at all, despite its inherent pleasures. I have no reason why.

 

Most of my mutual oral hook-ups we would take turns sucking each other, going back and forth 5-6 times over 30-40 minutes before lying down in the 69 position to finish each other off. The buildup is intense as we stop short individually so when we do get in the 69 position, we are fully ready to bust our nut.

 

My friend and I do it when we have the rare opportunity. Neither of us are into guys, but we are the only ones who can help each other. No hastles, just giving each other the outlet that we both need. If he didn't want to do it to me, I wouldn't do it to him. Thankfully we both enjoy it when it happens.

 

It all depends where we are. In the tool room downstairs, it usually a quickie for each of us. On the boat we have had the time and comfort to relax and enjoy it, Even more that one time. If we do one at a time . He would suck me, then my turn to return the favor. Several times I would get hard again while sucking him and he would go back again and I would follow suit to bring him around for a second. Vicious cycle that leaves us drained.

 

With my adult friends, eh, we might not have been into guys, but we were both into sucking cock and being sucked and, yes, totally NSA and let's not complicate this.

 

For me there has never been a script, I’ve been with guys where we take turns. And I’ve 69d with guys where we do a follow the leader sort of thing, do me like I do you. I’ve also on occasion been in a situation where it was only one way, where a guy doesn’t want reciprocal bj’s. On occasion it only been me sucking a guy and he isn’t interested in sucking me off. Although that’s not ideal, it makes me horny to suck a guys cock and I’m going to want to be sucked too.

 

In my past I had several guys I sucked off a couple times a week just wanting a great blowjob. I enjoyed doing so for them and none of them had a problem with me stroking myself while sucking them off as they also allowed me to shoot my load all over their cocks before they blew in my mouth. I love sucking cock more than being sucked myself, I would have loved for them to suck me off too but being a service provider for them met both of our needs as I got to eat not just his load of cum but my own as well.

 

It depends on how much time we have. If time is limited one of us will suck off the other. With more time we suck each other off. With even more time we may even end up fucking each other. No matter how much time we have, it's always good.

 

That last few guys I met up with it was just me blowing them. That's my preference, not really interested in having them reciprocate. Some guys insist, so we'll do mutual, either 69 or take turns.
I love meeting up, sucking them off, and leaving, gets me totally high or something.
I'd love it if I could find a local guy that just wants to be serviced regularly, but it's tough being in a rural area where everyone knows everyone.

 

I know what you mean, I've always enjoyed providing other deprived married guys with blowjobs whether we suck each other off or I just stop over to suck them off. I too live in a rural area but must have been lucky because there was a time that I enjoyed the company of five guys that I hooked up with on almost a weekly basis. Three of the guys just wanted sucked off, but the other two wanted mutual oral. I had plenty of regular cocks to suck and all because of Craigs List.

 

@CaperRick69: Even rural areas have gay online hookup sites and apps that you can use to find other bi and gay guys. As for the spill the beans factor in a community where everybody knows everybody, just make sure who you're hooking up with is not a straight guy that just wants his cock sucked. Have him tell you with online texting through the site or app about his past experiences sucking cock at least. He's not going to out you without outing himself then. Then prepare yourself about discovering the guy you've known for decades is actually not straight at all, and then get ready to have a great time with him.

 

I experienced this very scenario back when Craig's List was the happening place to hook up with other guys for mutual oral sex. I answered his ad; we exchanged photos of our cocks and made arrangements a couple days later for me to meet him at his home while his wife was at work. When he answered the door, I was shocked to see it was a co-worker from another department. He invited me in as I said, "I never would have expected you to be a cock sucker". He replied, "Nor did I expected you to be one as well". We chatted for about 20 minutes when I said "Well, we're here together so we may as well go through with what we planned to do with each other". He agreed and we spent a very enjoyable hour sucking two loads of cum out of each other. Sadly, we never hooked up again as he transferred to another facility some weeks later.

 

I've often found that the apps can make "the world" a small space. I had been on A4A one day, looking for dick to suck, when a guy hit me up just when I was giving up for the day. We got to talking; he was looking to suck dick and maybe get his sucked and I was down for that and suggested he come over so we could get it on.

He shows up ten minutes later and when I answered the door, I was shocked... to see a member of my church standing there! Even more, I knew this man when he was a young gay boy and had watched him grow into adulthood! He said, "Wow, this is awkward, huh?"

I said, "Yeah, a little but do you want to come in so we can do what we said we wanted to do?"

He was an incredible cocksucker and was really responsive to being sucked. We sucked two nuts out of each other and agreed that it'd be nice if we could do this again and maybe regularly but that never came to be. For me, it was a lesson on how you cannot really know who you're chatting with on an app until you see them with your own eyes...

 

How do I approach an old friend?

 

It was a bit awkward initially for me as well with this co-worker. I became more comfortable during our 20-minute conversation as I said to him afterwards, "Well, the cat's out of the bag now so we may as well enjoy each other" to which he agreed. We got naked and had a very enjoyable time together and I would have enjoyed being with him again, but it just wasn't meant to be, I guess.

 

Yikes, I've never brought the subject up with a friend I've known for many years for fear of losing the friendship. However, I did have one longtime friend (45 years) who'd lost his wife to cancer that admitted to me he recently accepted a blowjob from another guy and wanted to know if a guy ever sucked my cock. I confessed that I had and the following week he allowed me to suck his cock. It was awesome for me to have been able to do so because as teenagers he and I had sex with the same 8-10 girls in the neighborhood and all those girls told me he had a big cock. They were not lying either as I found out.

 

Use the pop culture phenomenon that is "Heated Rivalry" on HBO, about a gay guy and a bi guy as an opening to feel him out? Work in a joke about not knowing about bi guys who could get & give a blow job, then be on their merry way back to their woman, until the next time the need strikes? And no one is the wiser about it?! Say "Damn, that sounds like almost too good to be true?! If only! " or those lucky guys get to have tbeir cake AND eat it too! Ask if he heard of that show getting all the buzz, or knew such a thing existed? And be silent, gage his reaction, and let him speak?

 

Back in 1975 when my friend and I first became friends the last thing to cross our minds was letting another guy suck our dick or sucking a guy's dick. It's funny how our mind thought changes over many decades to eventually accept something many decades ago was totally out of the question. Having known him for 45 years the last thing I ever expected was being provided the opportunity to suck his cock. I'd been sucking cock myself off and on for close to 20 years. When he dropped his pants and exposed his cock I was both nervous and excited at the same time. He leaned back in the couch and spread his legs and said, "Go for it, let me see what you can do". We both laughed as I fondled his rather large hairy balls. I'm not particularly fond of hairy balls but I was not wanting to let him down, so I sucked one as I gently stroked his soft cock, sucked the other one while still gently stroking to then take both of his balls in my mouth and also licked the underside of them very close to his asshole as he arched his legs up. I sensed he liked what I was doing so I focused on sucking the underside of his balls as they lay on my nose and slightly ran my tongue over his asshole as he let out a gasp of pleasure, I continued, thought about rimming him but came up to begin sucking on his hardening cock. He was quite thick as I focused on the head for a while as I fondled his balls and slid my fingers over his asshole before making my way down his cock with my mouth. He became very hard at this point; he was all the 10" those teenage girls told me he was. As I continued sucking him, I also felt the need to use a helping hand with his size to provide more pleasure for him. He started really moaning and saying, suck it, yeah, suck on it, it feels great. Now I'm wanting to see if I can take his entire cock down to the base of his balls being it's covered in my saliva and ready to be deep throated. My first few attempts I was only an inch away from success, but I was determined and as I slowly went back down, only an inch away he forced my head down and bucked his hips towards my mouth and there went all 10" of his cock as my nose was planted within his bush of pubic hair. He loved it and complimented me for being able to do so, I proceeded to do this at least 20 times as he was really enjoying it. I relaxed for a bit just sucking on about 7" of his cock with great suction and vigorous head bobbing as he became very vocal, so I deepthroated him a couple more times without his help before returning to power sucking 7" of his raging hard cock to suddenly feel him start spurting his cum into my mouth, I continued sucking and swallowing as he provided a large amount of cum as he began slowly fucking my mouth while holding the back of my head. I did drool a little bit of his cum but swallowed most of it as he went limp on the couch as I made sure to suck his cock and balls clean of his cum. As he began to soften up, I continued to slowly suck his thick cock of any residual cum left behind. His breathing was heavy as he finally left out a sigh to say, "You my friend can suck my cock any time you like". I did get to suck his cock a second time with a woman he and I had a threesome with a few weeks later. I miss him as he passed away about a month later.