Only lightly been involved in this type of activity, but I was always the dominant one. I must say it does get me going a little bit, thinking about a women ordering me around, putting me in panties, making me her loveslave, etc.. but I don’t care for the pegging side of things. Is this a specific type of BDSM? Not really into being humiliated, just being bossed around a bit.
It's called marriage. In all seriousness, you should try it (the bdsm, not marriage). I was always dominant until I went to a Pro Domme. It opened up a whole new world to me and now I love dominant women. Pegging and humiliation are just niche activities. Plenty of other things to do.
You don't have to be pegged. Have you partner tie your arms to the bed so she can sit on your face (or he can give you his cock). Let her put you in diapers and you pee in them. Then your partner can put you over their knee and lightly spank your bare bottom as punishment. Even keeping you from cumming and teasing is light BDSM. There's lots of activities you can do besides getting fucked.
