Wife with another man.

I should have added "with the right people"
finding them is the hard part....

 

My second wife and I ran into that bullshit with husbands pushing their wife into something she didn't want to do and we agreed that it was some seriously fucked up shit and not what the lifestyle is supposed to be about. Last time that happened to us, the poor woman was mortified, and we had asked her, "Didn't he tell you what was supposed to take place?"

He didn't. We could tell that it was going to suck to be him the moment she got him alone. We'd had enough of the bullshit we were getting faced with.

 

Some folks have offered some good advice to prospective “ Wife sharing” couples, From couples, especially the guy, Yes, communication is imperative. For us, we talked and talked, but never discussed RULES. We didn’t have any steadfast rules. Hell, You are inviting another man to be with your gf/Fiancé/Wife. Right there you broken a major rule. What is the point of additional boundaries? Why limit Her or yourself?
One thing that some folks have commented on was their rule was no kissing. They say it is too intimate. WTH? you’re watching your partner suck and f*ck another man, but no kissing? I don’t get that part. Never have….never will. She wanted to be made love to by two men, not just f*cked, And she loved to kiss. Different strokes for different folks…

 

My husband definitely likes watching me having sex with other men. As bonus to myself I stay on there I stay on their dicks until there done ejaculating inside me

 

Sure honey , you can suck him and fuck him but don't even think about kissing him . WTF ?
Are you kidding me ?

 

Nope, not kidding. I've run into this one before and they say no kissing because... it's too intimate. Like eating her pussy then fucking her isn't intimate. I respect those who take this position but it's one that doesn't make a lot of sense to me where being intimate is concerned.

 

I've experienced this with a playmate.......
Oral-yes, role play-yes, intercourse- vaginal & anal-yes, light bondage/spanking-yes,
swallowing my cum-yes
KISSING-NO......go figure....

 

Maybe it's really just me but pumping my cum into her pussy is a hell of a lot more intimate than kissing her. My face plastered to her pussy? Intimate. Stroking her face as she swallows my cum? Intimate. Kissing her? Oh, I can't... because it's too intimate.

 

A long time ago I broached the subject with my wife. She was completely against the idea but over time because excited about it when we figured out a guy we both knew. She fucked him a couple times with my knowledge then another time or two that I didn’t know about. It was hot in the beginning but it turned out she was not prepared for the situation at all. She started to like the guy then told his wife. It was a mess. I would do it again if it were better circumstances. It was really hot and exciting but not worth losing a marriage over.

 

I think they liked being romanced, especially when you start taking each other for granted. I know she loved dancing and if she danced several times she may end up hooking up with a man.

 

We decided the end result wasn't really worth the potential problems...and even at best there are some couples that will try to dominate and control the other couple. We ran into a couple or two that INSISTED on paying for everything when we were with them...and it was a control thing, they wanted us to be obligated to them.
When I told them thanks but no thanks, we pay our own way....they quickly lost interest and ditched us.....and we were fine with that

 

Good catch . Saved headaches later on .

 

Traveler, do you mean that *you lost your marriage, or that *they did

 

What you say is so true. There are plenty of willing men, but finding one willing to satisfy her as well as himself is a challenge.

 

That was one of the things that brought us together. Before we married she was my gfs friend and we used to double date a lot and go the drive in . We used to have sex with our respective dates and watched each other enjoying. At one point,she was riding her date and I was fucking mine. We looked into each others eyes as our hands touched. That was the first time we held each others hand while we fucked another. We got together and have been married for over 50 yrs.

 

Drive Inn were fun; did you ever swap dates before you married? A buddy and I did we went for refreshments and changed places and dates. They asked what we were up to and soon found out.

 

no neither marriage split up over it but it nearly cost me my marriage. She couldn’t handle the emotions of sex with him and started getting “attached” to him. Her affair with him ended and we stayed together but it wasn’t easy for a while.

 

That is the inherent danger involved with your wife sleeping with another man. It always starts out as being recreational only with rules in place that disallows the display or feeling of any emotion other than lust but I found that sex has a "master key" to things inside of us that we'd prefer to not have unlocked and the level of intimacy that a wife can experience can allow her to latch on to the lover who unlocked her but we have enough hubris - or naivety - to believe that we can and should only love one person at a time when humans are capable of much more than that.

When my first wife and I went open, someone had asked me what I would do if another guy fucked her and now she wanted to be with him and I said, "It's a chance we both agree to take and if she'd rather be with him, I'm not going to make her stay somewhere she doesn't want to be." But my worry wasn't losing her to another man - it was losing her to another woman but, again, this was the 'occupational hazard' we acknowledged and agreed to accept.

 

I would be very careful coming from a guy who has fucked married women in secret. When a guy fucks her better that you she will continue and if u don’t want her too she will just cheat behind your back.

 

Careful...always but it depends on the relationship the two of you have . It won't always turn out like you say .