When you hook up with your Friend?

When you meet up with your friend for some fun , is it a Mutual thing where you basicly 69 and blow each other or is it one at a time? Is it just you sucking cock and your friend is on the receiving end or does he help you out too?

 

In the times I've had such a friend, it's always been mutual with one exception. Sixty-nine or taking turns, any friend (except that one exception) knew going in that if they wanted their dick sucked, so did I because I do not believe in that no reciprocation thing.

 

I've always wanted reciprocation in my casual hookups with guys in each other's homes (anonymous cocksucking in bathhouse saunas etc. is a different thing), but a few times the guy either would not suck me, or would do it barely, in comparison to my passionately sucking his cock for a long time to completion. This especially has happened when he turned out to be straight, but advertised himself as bi. Nowadays I'm not interested in just oral hookups: I want to fuck. I'm now very careful when I get together with a guy who advertises himself as bi, let alone straight: I make very sure that he loves everything about a guy's body, and not just his cock. Mostly I prefer gay men (except gay "sides", those that don't do anal--I'm done with them).

And when it comes to oral, we always end up with one guy sucking the other guy's cock first, and then switching. It might be taking turns, back-and-forth, and when I was just doing oral, eventually one guy cums, and then he goes back to sucking the other guy's cock until he cums. And I always swallow, and hope he does too. But I especially love when we eventually switch into a 69 position and suck each other's cocks simultaneously--of course as foreplay before fucking nowadays. But if it's just for oral, my favourite is both of us cumming while 69ing each other, not necessarily simultaneously, which is very rare but extremely enjoyable, but usually with one guy cumming first, with your arms tightly holding each other's bodies and asses, and never losing lip lock on each other's cocks, and swallowing every last drop, and then him continuing to suck that empty cock while the owner sucks and swallows his load.

As for that glorious simultaneous orgasm in that beautiful, perfect gay 69 embrace, it is most possible when you use some kind of verbal cues to indicate when one guy gets close, and then the guy sucking his cock easing off a bit, just gently edging him with his mouth and tongue, until he himself gets close, and then using your verbal or even physical cues to take each other over the edge simultaneously for one of the most mind blowing orgasms of your lives. OMG, I can't tell you how close you would feel to your cocksucking lover when sharing this kind of orgasm and your cum together. But, also, alas, it's hard to find a guy to 69 together in this way. In fact, most guys don't bother with the 69 at all, despite its inherent pleasures. I have no reason why.

 

Most of my mutual oral hook-ups we would take turns sucking each other, going back and forth 5-6 times over 30-40 minutes before lying down in the 69 position to finish each other off. The buildup is intense as we stop short individually so when we do get in the 69 position, we are fully ready to bust our nut.

 

My friend and I do it when we have the rare opportunity. Neither of us are into guys, but we are the only ones who can help each other. No hastles, just giving each other the outlet that we both need. If he didn't want to do it to me, I wouldn't do it to him. Thankfully we both enjoy it when it happens.

 

It all depends where we are. In the tool room downstairs, it usually a quickie for each of us. On the boat we have had the time and comfort to relax and enjoy it, Even more that one time. If we do one at a time . He would suck me, then my turn to return the favor. Several times I would get hard again while sucking him and he would go back again and I would follow suit to bring him around for a second. Vicious cycle that leaves us drained.

 

With my adult friends, eh, we might not have been into guys, but we were both into sucking cock and being sucked and, yes, totally NSA and let's not complicate this.

 

For me there has never been a script, I’ve been with guys where we take turns. And I’ve 69d with guys where we do a follow the leader sort of thing, do me like I do you. I’ve also on occasion been in a situation where it was only one way, where a guy doesn’t want reciprocal bj’s. On occasion it only been me sucking a guy and he isn’t interested in sucking me off. Although that’s not ideal, it makes me horny to suck a guys cock and I’m going to want to be sucked too.