Having open relationship and having a hotwife is the best thing that has happened to us since we got married in our mid 20s…we are early thirties….this has actually strengthened our marriage. Our love is more stronger …we share everything and openly discuss our experiences and encourage each other to persue this experience as we see our needs. Long as it’s safe and protected….
As long as you guys are happy and your not hurting anyone. Enjoy the lifestyle and live your lives the way you want.
If done correctly and with a foundation in a solid relationship. there is a level of trust and love in these relationships that I don't think you can find in a traditional relationship. Those who haven't experienced it simply wouldn't understand. I wouldn't recommend it for everyone. It is probably risky for a young couple that is still learning about each other. If the couple does not have good communication it is also more risky. Though I will admit, that my wife and I have not always had the best communication and we have had a great time in this lifestyle. I would also recommend if anyone wants to pursue this adventure, make sure you know your partner's body very well. Worship it in a tantric manner. Be attentive. Learn what turns them on, what parts of their body make them hot. Explore positions and feelings. Perhaps some drug-enhanced sharing might help learn their most intimate points and moves and responses. In other words, become the best and most attentive lover they will ever have. This enhances the experience in so many ways. First and foremost, it means that they will always know no matter how another partner, or partners, makes them feel, they can always come back to you for further fulfillment. It also enhances the understanding of how your partner's body responds to their other partner, and likewise, how their partner experiences them. Finally, if there are any problems with their partner being unable to satisfy them, you can advise them or try to help them find satisfaction from their other partner, as well as what they can do to their partner to enhance their partner's satisfaction. Before we could face time, there were many times that I discretely listened in. (We changed my phone number to say Charging, and her lover thought she was charging her phone while I listened in.) But I knew her body so well, that I was able to figure out pretty accurately what was happening at what time. For example, she is very sensitive inside her vagina and can readily feel and enjoy her partner cumming inside of her. She has a way of moaning in rhythm with each contraction of her partners cock. There were various Japanese techniques that existed in the bathhouses and among the geisha and prostitutes that I learned of in Japan. At one time I had a great Japanese book on the sexual history and culture of Japan, and it went into great detail. (Unfortunately, my first wife took it,) We perfected some of those techniques over the years, and I would have her use them on her partners--my favorite being kinchaku, the golden purse, which I have written about many times here on HF. Of all her lovers, I am the only one who can consistently bring her to multiple orgasms. She knows her own body very well, so she usually knows how to bring herself to orgasm every time she has sex. So even if she does it several times with a partner in a night, she will almost always cum each time. But I am talking about multiple orgasms in a single session. She has done this a few times with a few partners, something clicked or the experience was so hot as to enable it. But I am the only one that can do this consistently. In the case of what I refer to as her main lover, they would meet weekly, usually several times a week, and that lasted for well over a decade. He only brought her to multiple orgasms once her twice in that time, that I recall. I compare sex with her after she has been with a partner to be so good, it is like sex on weed, or some other enhanced way. She would always let me know when they were about to have sex, and contact me when they were done (unless of course we were together with a partner, in which case I already knew). Or I even listened in or watched on messenger. And then when she got home, there was always the proof that she had just satisfied another. She has never used a condom, so she would be filled with his cum. Her main lover left her stretched out, and so forth.
I have to agree we talked it over and all went well; it was sex and only sex. I will admit we often talked to other couples and a few got started with spur of the moment encounters usually wife or girlfriend being with another man. These are couples who enjoyed the lifestyle, but I am sure there are other couples that probably didn't enjoy it.
