Getting the head of the cock in the ass without pain is the basic warm up. Light teasing, probing a little more each time works best. A twist of the wrist screws the dildo right in. Once the gate is opened,I'm able to take whatever she can throw at me. I will always warm up if I knew what was going to happen. Do you jump into it, or take it one step at a time.?
As long as it's lubed, I put it right in. Typically go about 6-7 inches deep right away without really slowing down, then go to town as I jerk myself
Lube up, tease my hole for that awesome pop thru feeling to cum before working down to the balls 8-10" away, depending on the toy.
I agree, I enjoy the gentle teasing of the head in and out of my ass for a while before slowly going a little deeper until all 8-10" is balls deep inside me.