Thinking of cock

Wish i knew why i keep thinking about things like this. I mean im not married but have never been with a man much less even close. Although i keep havig all these kinds of fantasies and desires. Have no idea where they come from.

 

Sometimes they come out of nowhere. Sometimes they have been brewing naturally in the subconscious and were suppressed for some reason, but eventually had to come out, and so they did. Now there's no denying.
Now that the worst has happened and you can't do anything about it, make the most of it. These feelings are part of who you truly are. I guess one way to deal with them is to try to figure out where they're coming from. But I'd like to suggest another way is to be open to the right opportunities to explore your fantasies and desires with the right guys. You're even not married, so you're so free to explore this. And I think you will torture yourself thinking about this until you do something about it. You owe it to yourself to take action.

 

twenty years ago all i thought about was pussy. these days, all i think about is cock

 

Thanks Soul

 

he's right. the best thing is to not get too deep into your own head about this. you'll only end up driving yourself crazy

 

Thank you Poet

 

Like the others above, I would like to encourage you to start experimenting with other guys while you're single. I've been single most of my life, except for two girlfriends, the first for 5 years on and off (27-32) and the second for 3 years on and off (54-57)--with the latter breaking up just before Covid hit. So I've had that freedom to explore with men a lot (!!). In fact, I have found the more that I have had sex with guys, only oral for 21 years, and then anal as well, the more I want. I can't believe how much fun it is, and how fulfilling it is. I promise you, you'll never regret it. And, whatever shape or size you are, there are guys that will love to be with you, if that's what's holding you back.

 

Thanks Rising