Two things Your avatar if that’s really you. And the fact that you actually dress sexy to look good for your husband. That’s why I called him lucky.
My ex-wife was A bit of an exhibitionist, so I did not have to ask her. When she was in the mood, all bets were off. But hell, she got the Additional attention she wanted, and that paid off once we got home. She was overheated! My current wife was quite conservative. She had a reputation to uphold. One night we’re getting ready to go out, and she had laid out a nice yellow sundress, bra, and bikini panties. While she was in the shower, I confiscated her bra. She came out to get dressed and was like WTH! I said no bra, or we’re not going out. She reluctantly agreed. She had very nice breasts, not huge knockers, but going braless she looked so damn sexy. We’re at a pretty upscale restaurant, we are both feeling horny, and when she got up to use the ladies room, I told her to bring me her panties. WHAT? When she returned she slipped into the booth next to me, and shyly slipped her panties into my hand. of course I had to slip my hand under the white tablecloth…. she was soaking wet. We had to get out of there and get home ASAP. we did that a couple of other times. if nothing else I wanted her to be proud of her 40 yr old body. She grew to really like it! 2 thumbs up!
We had talked many times about her wearing clothes that reveal some parts of her body. Before we were married, she did not feel her body was something men would want look at and admire. Her upbringing and the negative comments from family members did not leave her with any type of positive self-image. After a few years of building her image up, we had several conversations about her attire. It took a little while but she now loves the freedom of wearing revealing clothes. Fortunately, Florida weather allows her to wear her many sundresses most of the year. They are all higher than mid-thigh and are fairly low cut....and never wears anything underneath. We have grocery shopped, clothes shopped, dined out, watched movies, taken escalators, etc. She knows men will look when we are out and about....it truly does not bother her now when they do. She has admitted this causes her to become excited and wet when she is leaning down or bending over a little and a man is trying to surreptitiously check her out knowing some part is showing. She even began bringing a little, white, two-piece bikini to wear when we were in hot tubs at various hotels late in the evening. Many a man had quite the look on his face when she stood up, stepped by them, and picked up her towel while wearing a totally sheer when wet bikini. She is now very comfortable in her skin and knows that the male population does indeed like to look at ladies, especially if they feel that have a chance to see some lady parts. I have been telling her for decades that is just how a lot of us are wired....