Blowjob from a guy

That's what I'm saying. I get now turned on by a man than a woman

 

I love to see a long smooth cock I just do

 

How was your first time giving head

 

How was your first blowjob experience

 

I would love to see your cock

 

I'm glad you had a good experience. Thx for sharing

 

Yes, it was a great experience. Up to that point, all I had done was masturbate. That guy KNEW I needed an epic blow job. I squirted in his mouth for seven consecutive thrusts.

Within a week, I had my first experience with a woman. All I had needed was to get over my inhibitions.

 

I'd start with talking. We could talk about your anxiety, but other than validating your feelings, I wouldn't want to dwell on it. Rather, tell me what you like, what you want, and how you want it? What would a satisfying encounter look like to you; one you're likely to repeat? What are some things we can do to help you relax? I'd suggest that what you sound like you're looking for is purely recreational sex; it doesn't have to have any deeper meaning than that. It doesn't mean we're dating or you're Bi or Gay, just human. Humans are inherently sexual beings and crave sexual expression; sexual abstinence is an unnatural state for us. There's no shame in being human...and I can provide the release you're looking for without shaming, judgement, or condemnation.
Rather than focus on the fact that you're "getting sex from a guy", focus your attention on the physical sensations; how good your cock feels to be in the warmth of someone's mouth again; their tongue swirling around the rim of your head, the sensation of someone caressing your naked thigh; pinching your nipples. You came to me for a blow job, so focus on what you came for, not my gender; that's irrelevant. Really indulge yourself; luxuriate in the sensations. I'm very amenable to real-time verbal feedback; faster/slower, harder/softer. When you're ready, let go and cum in my mouth; really cum. Be as free and feral and expressive as possible; moan, groan, shake, thrust with your hips; just let go fully, not repressing anything. Once I've sucked you dry, don't just jump up, throw your clothes on, and run out the door; chill for a little while; rest, catch your breath, let your physiology readjust. Normalize being naked around a guy; being touched sexually.
There; you got your blow job, and you're still a Straight cisgender male; your masculinity just as intact now as it was when you arrived.
As with anything, it gets easier with repetition.

I like massage. Besides being relaxing, it normalizes human touch. I think it makes the transition to overt sexuality easier.
A lot of guys like watching porn while getting head.
A moderate glass of your favorite adult beverage might loosen you up, but higher doses negatively affect male sexual response...and nobody likes a drunk.
If the visuals of a guy sucking your cock are problematic, a dark room decreases visual stimulation and refocuses attention elsewhere, like the sensations of your cock.

All I ask for is kindness. Verbal, emotional, or physical abuse are absolute deal-breakers!

 

My first blowjob from a guy was with my best friend from across the street when we were both 8, but you could hardly call it a blowjob. We were just doing the regular boyhood experimentation, I'll show you mine if you show me yours, I'll touch yours if you touch mine, I'll lick yours, ...suck yours, ...kiss your asshole, ..lick your asshole, ...rub my cockhead against your asshole, ...push my cockhead tip into your asshole with my fingers (that's all we could do with just the soft penises we had), ...and years later fuck your asshole if you fuck mine. This continued until we were 13, continuously sneaking away into the middle of our favourite bush in a hydroelectric field to have sex in the warm months, or in our garage or each other's basements in the winter months. But then a few weeks from my 14th birthday, the summer before high school, we had a bad break up.

Even though this had gone on for almost 6 years, I never considered any of this to be gay sex, not like it was for me when my gay desires became full-blown at 30. I know it's weird, but I don't consider anything that my boyhood friend and I did as something that counts. But the first time a man's cock came through the gloryhole in the video arcade booth I was in definitely counts. It was the most exciting and scariest at the same time moment of my life. But the fear dissolved away once I took his hard cock into my hands, and then finally into my mouth, and began sucking him. OMG, this was so surreal and so incredibly exciting and wonderful. His cock felt amazing, both hard and soft at the same time, that beautiful velvety penile skin, wonderfully shaped head, all of it hard and engorged with his blood because of the incredible gay excitement he felt for me. But I wasn't ready yet to take his cum into my mouth, so I pulled off while shot after shot of his cum flew across the booth. I don't know why, because after puberty started, I certainly drank the cum of my best friend. Maybe I had some stupid fear of catching an STI by having this guy shoot into my mouth. But it was absolutely awesome to watch that incredible force of cum shoot out of his cock because of what I just did to him. Me, me, I, just sucked another guy's cock! But he didn't reciprocate.

But now I can't remember anymore whether it was later that same day or the next time I was there when I felt another man's wet mouth envelope my cock through the gloryhole. The only other person who had ever sucked my cock up until then, besides my childhood boyfriend, was my first girlfriend who took my virginity 3 years earlier, but she found both fellatio and cunnilingus icky, and she wasn't crazy about intercourse either, and so we rarely had sex during our tumultuous three year relationship. So she did not enjoy sucking my cock. But, OMG, when that guy took my cock into his mouth, it was already an instantly and infinitely better sensation than I'd ever felt before with that girlfriend, or my childhood boyfriend. As he began sucking and licking my cock, up and down, in and out, long licks up and down the shaft, deep sucking and deepthroating, without a hint of any teeth, with what I could sense was great enjoyment, I was in heaven.

My girlfriend had never sucked my cock to orgasm. But this guy definitely did. I rang out my cry of, "I'm cumming," but he did nothing but increase his out of this world pleasure on my cock. I shot load after load of my cum into his mouth. I could actually feel my cum shooting out of my cock and into his mouth, without any condom barrier, him just drinking by semen, another person swallowing my essence. I felt so close to this guy who was swallowing my cum load, shot after shot, and kind of wished we didn't have a barrier between us. I don't know how long he kept gently sucking my cock, for I was in a completely altered state of consciousness. He finally dragged his wet lips up my shaft and out. I felt some post-orgasm sensitivity as he planted light kisses up and down my shaft and on my cockhead, and wiggling the tip of his tongue in my cum hole. And then he was instantly gone.

OMG, this is what a blowjob is supposed to be like?! The feeling my cock felt in his mouth and from all that he was doing to me, and sucking me dry, was beyond all my fantasies--not just fantasies about a blowjob, but my powerful fantasies about giving my cock to another man. There were straps in the booth (I can't remember if they were on the wall near the ceiling, or on the ceiling itself hanging down), but I grabbed onto them and held really tight, with my pelvis smash really tightly against the wall of the booth, my cock pushed deeply through the hole and into his eager mouth, while having one of those "I'm seeing stars" orgasms. I can still so vividly remember the sensations. Now THIS person knew how to give a blowjob! I learned from him and subsequently tried to give similar blowjobs, ever improving my skill and technique, with all the hundreds of future men that I sucked. My cocksucking life had just started! And that was 33 years ago: now, at 63, I live as a gay man--finally!

 

If you did it, then it counts. Why wouldn't it count?

 

men suck better cock than my wife they know how to please

 

You are not wrong. Sadly, far too many married women who perform oral on their man do so because to them it is a required chore, like cleaning the toilet, they don't really like doing it, but they do it because it's a required chore. Men on the other hand give oral to another man because they want to and do so with much more enthusiasm which provides much more satisfaction for the receiver.

 

I have before and I will continue to disagree with this statement every time I read it. The person (male or female) that gives the best blowjob is the person that loves what they are doing. I have gotten lousy blowjobs from both men and women, and I have gotten mind blowing blowjobs from both men and women. The lousy ones were from men who were basically into "blow and go". They wanted to suck as many cocks as they could so they would get it done as fast as they could. The lousy one that I got from women were from women who felt it was their duty or a chore. The FABULOUS ones were from men and women that love sucking cock. They love making love to a penis with their mouth. I think the absolute best blowjob that I ever got was from a woman that loved to suck cock so much that she would have minor orgasms while sucking your cock and then she would have one massive orgasm when you would cum in her mouth.

 

I agree; if you pay attention, you can tell whether the person giving you head is (a) doing it because they "have to," (b) they like doing it or, (c) they love doing it and would give you head all day, every day if it were possible. Over the decades, I've asked men and women what constitutes "bad head" and while men and women have slightly different opinions on the matter and based on their experiences to-date, the common denominator has been... a failure to make them cum and then accepting the cum. In my own experiences I've gotten "bad" head from both men and women and some mind-blowing head from these sources, leaving me to postulate that the only bad head that exists is not getting head.

Period. To many a guy who gets that first blowjob from another guy the thing that makes it so mind-blowing and deemed to be better than a woman can do is... the male cocksucker's dogged pursuit to make them cum and swallow it. No complaints, no having to compromise, none of that "what's in it for me" stuff, none of that "is that all you think about" crap or having to wait for your birthday or anniversary to get sucked off.

 

The big difference being it is 1000x easier to find a guy who gives head than it is to find a woman that will do it at all. Also, with women it is a rarity, and with men it is the main course, as are oral cumshots. I've given more blowjobs in two weeks than most women give their entire lives, and I know I am far from being alone on that. Heck, one week I gave 40+ blowjobs, and untold thousands over the last 20 years. I've loved every inch, every throb, every spurt, and every drop of cum. Not many women would say the same thing.

 

That's what makes it so popular - a gazillion guys who are more than willing to give you a blowjob and/or accept one from you. I'll say it again: If a guy is sucking your cock, he's not going to stop until you cum in his mouth so he can swallow it. In the 61 years that I've been an active bisexual, I can't tell you how many blowjobs I've given and/or how many blowjobs I've gotten from guys. More than head I've gotten from women. Nine out of ten guys swallowed ad I'm a swallower, too.

Which thing would a guy might like? Having a guy who is going to suck you off and as a matter of course or the woman you have to beg and bargain with?

 

Honestly, every man I've been with has always swallowed my load and I swallowed his. It's all but guaranteed with another guy unlike some woman. I guess I've been lucky over the years because only one woman disliked swallowing cum as she was obsessed with getting a facial which was fine, but I would have preferred she swallowed it. Swallowing the load elevates the satisfaction level for the one being sucked off.

 

Well said, you turned me on sir!

 

I was curios as to sucking a cock. I did get the chance to do it and I admit it got me hot. I sucked it and swallowed my prize. I also got a bj from a guy and it was amazing I shot my load and my legs were weak from the experience. Personally I think what I did added to my sexual pallet I must say I enjoyed it. Don’t think I have given up on women I will still have sex with them as they turn me on with there beauty and charm.